What the hell...?

  • swimmermatt10...

    Posts: 281

    Jun 06, 2010 3:07 AM GMT
    So I was talking to this guy online the other night, very attractive and seemed down to earth, chill guy. We were not talking about sex or a relationship at all, almost as if we had been friends already just normal talking. Then we got to talking about weed and how we both smoke and such and he ended up inviting me over to smoke. I went over there we smoked a couple bowls and we started to watch tv. After a little bit he laid his head on my chest ( we were on a lovesac so we were both lying down) and it felt really normal and not awkward at all. Then like 15 minutes later we are making out, one thing leads to another and our clothes are off. We didnt have sex but it was really sensual. We cuddled and had fun and didnt get to bed til 5:30 am. I was totally not expecting this to happen at all, I seriously just thought is was gonna be 2 buds smoking up and chilling and then this happens...what the hell? Caught me off guard, didnt plan on anything more than a smoke buddy. Now I kinda want to see where things could go but how do I go about that without seeming clingy but also not distant at the same time. We havent talked since that night and I actually left something of mine at his place so I have to see him again but I just dont know if he feels the same way I do. I am by no means saying I have feelings for him or like him but I totally wouldnt mind seeing where things go with him. Any help is appreciated.

    **Disclaimer** Please dont comment on the weed part, thats not what im asking about. If you have different opinions about weed, cool you are entitled to it yes but I dont need to hear them on this thread.
  • Timbales

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    Jun 06, 2010 3:12 AM GMT
    I say be honest, tell him it wasn't expected but you enjoyed it and would like to do it again if he's into it.
  • swimmermatt10...

    Posts: 281

    Jun 06, 2010 3:25 AM GMT
    And I realize that is what I SHOULD do but I feel like that could potentially scare him off and I would rather have him as a friend than scare him off and be nothing.
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    Jun 06, 2010 4:17 AM GMT
    Ummmm seems like he made the first move when he laid his head on your chest. That should tell you something right there