Leaving cum inside

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    Jun 07, 2010 1:42 AM GMT
    My bf and I have been together for almost a year now and we're monogamous. About a month ago we decided to stop using condoms since we are both HIV- and there is a strong level of trust in our relationship. The question came up whether whoever bottoms (we're both vers) should leave the cum inside to try to flush it out. Is it unhealthy to leave it in there?
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    Jun 07, 2010 1:50 AM GMT
    ok so to add. last time me and my bf fucked we just left it in there and he farted the next day when we were hanging out and it got a little messy. Like, I thought it would get absorbed...shouldn't it? I like the idea of just being able to fuck and not worry able cleaning up and being able to cuddle right afterwards.
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    Jun 07, 2010 1:53 AM GMT
    Semen is not itself unhealthy if it contains no infectious pathogens. If it were naturally unhealthy then women would always be at risk with vaginal sex.

    So long as you both remain 100% monogamous and have tested negative for HIV and all STDs for 6 months previously, unprotected anal sex can be considered safe. You get HIV from a previously infected person; it does not occur spontaneously during anal sex with a negative partner.

    Regarding your follow-on question, the primary role of the rectum is not to absorb as the large intestine does. The rectum's job is to temporarily hold the stool until it is evacuated. Semen deposited in the rectum may therefore remain there and not be fully absorbed, being expelled with the next bowel movement. Or in your BF's case, since he probably didn't have an intervening BM from when you had sex, the semen remnants were released when he passed gas. This would be normal and no cause for concern.
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    Jun 07, 2010 5:11 AM GMT
    Given the above... I'd say flush out just too keep from getting messy lol
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    Jun 07, 2010 5:23 AM GMT
    ncsu20 saidok so to add. last time me and my bf fucked we just left it in there and he farted the next day when we were hanging out and it got a little messy. Like, I thought it would get absorbed...shouldn't it? I like the idea of just being able to fuck and not worry able cleaning up and being able to cuddle right afterwards.


    did anyone actually laughed out loud when reading this like I did?
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    Jun 07, 2010 5:24 AM GMT
    I'm sure this is something you could have googled and looked up on your own. Why make a really personal issue so public?
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    Jun 07, 2010 5:25 AM GMT
    cum farts!!!

    ugh i hate cum farts....

    make sure leg day does not fall on the morning after. last i heard, cum squats were not acceptable
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    Jun 07, 2010 5:25 AM GMT
    ohioguy12 said
    ncsu20 saidok so to add. last time me and my bf fucked we just left it in there and he farted the next day when we were hanging out and it got a little messy. Like, I thought it would get absorbed...shouldn't it? I like the idea of just being able to fuck and not worry able cleaning up and being able to cuddle right afterwards.


    did anyone actually laughed out loud when reading this like I did?


    Sorta. I threw up a little.

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  • cityguy39

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    Jun 07, 2010 5:34 AM GMT
    Ok, I understand your thread a little better now that I see how old you and your BF are, you and he probably really didn't have a clue as to what might happen afterward if you didn't clean out. The more sex you have and the older you get, the more you will learn.
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    Jun 07, 2010 5:42 AM GMT
    tinymike said

    make sure leg day does not fall on the morning after. last i heard, cum squats were not acceptable


    LOL!!!
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    Jun 07, 2010 5:45 AM GMT
    tinymike saidcum farts!!!

    ugh i hate cum farts....

    make sure leg day does not fall on the morning after. last i heard, cum squats were not acceptable


    I didn't consider that the situation could have been worse if leg day HAD fallen on the morning after. ahah At least now I know why we need to flush out.
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    Jun 07, 2010 5:47 AM GMT
    cityguy39 saidThe more sex you have and the older you get, the more you will learn.


    As a semi-young person myself I find your comment very offensive. icon_mad.gif

    Not all young people are idiots. icon_twisted.gif






    I'm sort of jesting.
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    Jun 07, 2010 5:52 AM GMT
    hmmm, I've never had that problem with my ex and I and he used to dump buckets hahaha...

    But you can wash it out if you want or just go to the bathroom, it'll get pushed out heh
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    Jun 07, 2010 5:52 AM GMT
    lol he farted
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    Jun 07, 2010 5:53 AM GMT
    ohioguy12 said
    ncsu20 saidok so to add. last time me and my bf fucked we just left it in there and he farted the next day when we were hanging out and it got a little messy. Like, I thought it would get absorbed...shouldn't it? I like the idea of just being able to fuck and not worry able cleaning up and being able to cuddle right afterwards.


    did anyone actually laughed out loud when reading this like I did?

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    No, but I gagged.
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    Jun 07, 2010 6:08 AM GMT
    redheadedryan said
    ohioguy12 said
    ncsu20 saidok so to add. last time me and my bf fucked we just left it in there and he farted the next day when we were hanging out and it got a little messy. Like, I thought it would get absorbed...shouldn't it? I like the idea of just being able to fuck and not worry able cleaning up and being able to cuddle right afterwards.


    did anyone actually laughed out loud when reading this like I did?

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    No, but I gagged.


    no, that's what happens when i cum in your throat, not your butt silly
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    Jun 07, 2010 6:28 AM GMT
    AHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAGAHA
  • Abc123456

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    Jun 07, 2010 6:34 AM GMT
    bhahaha So funny. So vulgar.
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    Jun 07, 2010 6:38 AM GMT
    Wilton said...

    So long as you both remain 100% monogamous and have tested negative for HIV and all STDs for 6 months previously, unprotected anal sex can be considered safe. You get HIV from a previously infected person; it does not occur spontaneously during anal sex with a negative partner. ...



    Just remember that "boys" lie and cheat.

    You are literally trusting him with your life.
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    Jun 07, 2010 6:49 AM GMT
    My bf and I took a road trip once from Kill Devil Hills NC to Ashville and I learned that day-- NEVER have sex before a road trip. As far as getting it all out is concerned, it is precisely when you are stuck in a tiny car on an endless trip that you will realize the sneaky power of the CF.
  • Greygull

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    Jun 07, 2010 6:53 AM GMT
    Heh, My BF regularly makes deposits, not really a problem as I am not prone to gas, I just wipe my ass and go about my business.

    This was a decision that we both made and continue to get regularly tested even though we are together and have been for a while.
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    Jun 07, 2010 7:47 AM GMT
    tinymike saidcum farts!!!

    ugh i hate cum farts....

    make sure leg day does not fall on the morning after. last i heard, cum squats were not acceptable
    For some reason I just envisioned someone working out nude. That would be fucking hilarious! LMFAO! icon_lol.gif
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    Jun 07, 2010 8:06 AM GMT
    N8tiveNuYawhka saidI'm sure this is something you could have googled and looked up on your own. Why make a really personal issue so public?


    I see a lot of these on here. Like "I have a cold! What should I do?" sort of posts. It's like going to the doctor for recommendations for Thai Food. You'll get an answer, but it's just silly.

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    Jun 07, 2010 8:15 AM GMT
    calibro said
    redheadedryan said
    ohioguy12 said
    ncsu20 saidok so to add. last time me and my bf fucked we just left it in there and he farted the next day when we were hanging out and it got a little messy. Like, I thought it would get absorbed...shouldn't it? I like the idea of just being able to fuck and not worry able cleaning up and being able to cuddle right afterwards.


    did anyone actually laughed out loud when reading this like I did?

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    No, but I gagged.


    no, that's what happens when i cum in your throat, not your butt silly


    why on earth would I gag then? i don't understand.
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    Jun 07, 2010 8:49 AM GMT
    WWOD?