Real Jock Studs, When i ask a question why do I get in return a RUDE remark of few members here and some time I get VERY sweet guys is willing to help out others?

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    Jun 07, 2010 5:07 PM GMT
    To ALL Real Jock STUDS,

    When I ask a question I get a RUDE remark or sometime I get a nice guy who is willing to help out others. Ok mine gramer and spelling is not great however I really don't like to be a jackass either icon_redface.gif,
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    Jun 07, 2010 5:11 PM GMT
    Continue asking the same questions until new members who have never read your previous posts decide to give you a proper answer. Eventually old members will reconsider to take u seriously.

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    Jun 07, 2010 6:52 PM GMT
    I can sorta see what southbeach is saying in this one. icon_exclaim.gif
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    Jun 07, 2010 7:45 PM GMT
    i don't.

    read his profile.

    it's absurdity after absurdity. i will reiterate here that i'm not sure i believe he's a real person.

    if you take his profile seriously, he wants someone like chizzad, but would reject chizzad for making whatever a firefighter makes (which is probably less than $90k/year). am i to take this ad (and by extension anything else this user "writes") seriously? you expect a greek god with a six-figure salary. fine. everyone does, i suppose...

    but what do YOU bring to the table? hmmmmmmmmmmmmm?
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    Jun 07, 2010 7:47 PM GMT
    but what do YOU bring to the table? hmmmmmmmmmmmmm?

    yes, this.
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    Jun 07, 2010 7:47 PM GMT
    what does he bring to the table? KFC probably.

    I agree totally with Jack. Your profile reads like a trollĀ“s profile and you post like a troll. If you are genuine then you need to have a hard think about how realistic you are being.
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    Jun 07, 2010 7:51 PM GMT
    BADWILD saidI get a RUDE remark or sometime I get a nice guy who is willing to help out others.


    welcome to the internet
    have a thick skin
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    Jun 08, 2010 12:11 AM GMT
    Badwild, I think that the reason why you've been getting such negative responses is because of the way your profile is. Maybe try fixing your profile and make it more realistic and genuine. Perhaps some of the negativity towards you will die down. Good luck!
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    Jun 08, 2010 12:31 AM GMT
    I will disclose my experience with this guy:

    I received a hotlisting and a friend request from him. While I am overtly flattered at any hotlisting I get, I am very particular about adding folks to my buddy list. I sent an email back to him explaining that he and I had never had any type of conversation before and I do not add people I don't know. He replied with information as though it were some kind of interview. I politely deleted the emails and had no further correspondence with him. After viewing his forum posts and his profile, I have come to the conclusion that he is trying to become King of Real Jock the way that others have sent requests to me on Myspace and Facebook before I deleted my facebook page so they can boast about have the most "friends" of anyone. I believe this is a real guy who is more than likely someone who has an online persona that is so far removed from his 'real' persona, he doesn't bear any further contact or correspondence from anyone because he can't be taken seriously. That has been my experience, albeit miniscule, with him.

    I do agree that the insensitive personal attacks are unwarranted and needless. The machismo, Type A personality prokjections might consider taking it down a notch or two. Just saying.
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    Jun 08, 2010 11:56 AM GMT
    meemo21 saidBadwild, I think that the reason why you've been getting such negative responses is because of the way your profile is. Maybe try fixing your profile and make it more realistic and genuine. Perhaps some of the negativity towards you will die down. Good luck!


    i said this to him very nicely when he first came on the site. His continued ignoring of excellent advice over a protracted time suggests troll....
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    Jun 08, 2010 12:07 PM GMT
    I think 90% of those here will give you constructive advice if your question is framed in which a way that invites reasoned help or criticism. If you throw out a question that "poisons the answer in advance", the responses you get may be as helpful as what could be.

    Now there are a few here that will make side remarks that aren't helpful, I tend to not forget when someone does that to me... but the best thing to do is be sincere. To put out a thread indicating that you don't date someone unless they make 95K invites sarcastic comment. Actually there were many here that could have been much less kind.

    In the end many here read your threads and wonder whats up? If you just want some good discussion, preface your introductory comments a little better.
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    Jun 08, 2010 1:09 PM GMT
    What are you doing here? You're not interested in fitness or going to the gym or dieting.. so what are you doing here other than wasting everyones time
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    Jun 08, 2010 2:24 PM GMT
    beneful1 saidWhat are you doing here? You're not interested in fitness or going to the gym or dieting.. so what are you doing here other than wasting everyones time


    Dude that's soooo lame. This site offers many things too many ppl. At the end of the day it's still a community of ppl. w/out him the cookie cutter images would be a dime a dozen. To the OP not everyone here will take a liking to you and so what this is not a popularity contest. However making it one will leave you w/ the very questions you seek (why) Focus on the ones who have been kind and given insight and leave those at your waist side who have been indifferent.
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    Jun 08, 2010 3:08 PM GMT
    Because you ask silly, ridiculous questions.