Jun 08, 2010 1:15 AM GMT
I'm a somewhat tall guy. 5'11" 195 and moderately hairy. And while I've had a number of male lovers that are attracted to that, I find that in my experience, females are far more attracted to me on the sole basis of physical appearance than men usually are. Too bad for them, I'm 100% gay.
Now, in my experience with men who've been physically attracted to me, I've come to realize that there's something ... paternal in the way men who are smaller in stature than I....view me. I find empathy in this because, I definitely find the experience of having to look up at another man almost overwhelmingly erotic and I'd be lying if I said there wasn't something paternal, filial and submissive in that feeling.
It is real, and it can be very flattering, no matter the gender of its source. I rarely have qualms about accepting compliments, nor do I feel threatened or insulted or feel I'm giving out some sort of "vibe" regarding any gay-dars I might inadvertently set off. Rarely will a gay man pursue any form of relationship that is unwanted. I believe that we all want to give our attentions to the man that we find attractive and treat Him with kindness and with respect
Any thoughts or comments on the subject?