Do gay dudes dig big brawny guys....?

  • masculumpedes

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    Jun 08, 2010 1:15 AM GMT
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    I'm a somewhat tall guy. 5'11" 195 and moderately hairy. And while I've had a number of male lovers that are attracted to that, I find that in my experience, females are far more attracted to me on the sole basis of physical appearance than men usually are. Too bad for them, I'm 100% gay.

    Now, in my experience with men who've been physically attracted to me, I've come to realize that there's something ... paternal in the way men who are smaller in stature than I....view me. I find empathy in this because, I definitely find the experience of having to look up at another man almost overwhelmingly erotic and I'd be lying if I said there wasn't something paternal, filial and submissive in that feeling.

    It is real, and it can be very flattering, no matter the gender of its source. I rarely have qualms about accepting compliments, nor do I feel threatened or insulted or feel I'm giving out some sort of "vibe" regarding any gay-dars I might inadvertently set off. Rarely will a gay man pursue any form of relationship that is unwanted. I believe that we all want to give our attentions to the man that we find attractive and treat Him with kindness and with respect

    Any thoughts or comments on the subject?

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    Jun 08, 2010 1:17 AM GMT
    some gay dudes dig big brawny guys

    some dont
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    Jun 08, 2010 1:27 AM GMT
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    Jun 08, 2010 1:06 PM GMT
    Hmm I used to find the big brawny guys hot.. But.. Well.. Not any more.. Sure, nice to look at and all, sure of they are hot I'll take them to bed, but, i actually like the smaller guys, I like being that big guy that they want and i like it when guys are submissive to me, vie come full circle really because I used to want that, but now i am that to be honest, I'm a big fella, I'm getting bigger, I've been told by a few guys they feels safe in my arms, that I can pick them up and they don't feel at all uncomfortable about it, they feel very safe about being in my arms and around me and I really like that, I like that they feel that and i really like it when a guy starts getting submissive to me..

    But then, i also know that while they are doing all those things i like, i ain't the boss either, so, i know that ultimately, I'm not in control, they are just giving me control for as long as they want too hahaha.
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    Jun 08, 2010 1:09 PM GMT
    malefeet saidDo gay dudes dig big brawny guys....?
    I certainly hope so! icon_razz.gif
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    Jun 08, 2010 1:24 PM GMT


    I loves me some Brawn!