They whine because it's people like you that ruin things for them. You are the reason they are so unhappy.
You don't give a damn what others think about you, while the slightest batting of the eyelashes would destroy their manhood.
You accept people the way they are, while everyone has to measure up first to their ridiculous sense of masculinity.
Being gay is only a small part of who you are, while being gay is the lynchpin of their existence, everything must be evaluated by how gay it is.
We see gay community, they see lots of small minority-groups they would never be caught dead in.
We see all colors of the rainbow, while they only see their niche.
They want to be like you, but never will be.
They should better do this