beachhunk2010 saidI have noticed lately that i have been attracting younger guys
i have always dated guys around my own age im 32 now" and i was confused about dating someone say 18-25 or 10 years younger etc i do find these guys attractive but is it worth it ?
anyone expierencing this situation or in a realtionship with a younger guy have some input about this ????
I dated someone 13 years my junior recently. It was fun and light in the beginning. He brought up the issue of exclusivity, and I agreed to it. He introduced me to all his friends, his family, grandmother etc.
Fast forward to the end of the relationship (which lasted less than 5 months) it fell apart because he figured that what he wanted in the beginning wasn't what he bargained for. He didn't want to be monogamous ... "I'm only 22" - ok fair enough.
It was a lesson learned. With age comes years of experience. With younger guys, there is a lack of time therefore, there is a lack of experience, regardless of what they try to feed you.
Then when they experience what 'real life' is as a couple, they don't want it right yet.
So if you're going to - fuck them good and hard, and leave them at the 3 month mark
my case was the opposite.
hit the 6 month mark.
Introduced him to friends and family, everything was fantastic, then he started saying i may be too young, that hes scared that i dont know what i want, when i clearly, stated what i wanted, and what i wanted was him, he would always say it, and bring it up, and he justified it with saying that at my age he was all over the place...and because he was like that at his age, and i too will be like that, needless to say it fell apart, and i was left with "WTF?" in my mind haha.
moral of the story, just because one guy has said the same to someone, or that so and so was the same at that age, doesnt mean another guy will think the same, dont pass up an opportunity because you "think" so and so will be like that based on their age, heigh, etc etc.
if that makes sense.
*not directed at anyone..just throwin it out there.
ps. youre a stud ;)