Jun 13, 2010 1:57 PM GMT
It doesn't take a genius to figure it out. Reading the tone and ability of someones writing is part of comprehension. All of these profiles have similar questions and writing styles.
Advice on meeting the all american guy thread
Jun 13, 2010 9:06 AMI am a 32 year old, masculine, educated guy. I've been in the southern US my whole life and had very little luck meeting anyone with substance. I know that part of that is my fault because I don't put myself out there. I've never been a big fan of gay bars or the whole gay "scene". Combined with the fact that I only find myself attracted to masculine guys, meeting someone special has been a difficult process.
I'm open to hearing advice on meeting an All-American type guy...my view of that is someone athletic, masculine, social, down-to-earth, smart, motivated, etc. It seems like there are quite a few guys like that on this site, so I thought I'd put myself out there to get some good advice!
Side note: this isn't meant to be a "personals" ad...just really seeking advice!
OMG Help I'm so akward thread
May 30, 2010 5:54 PMHey everyone!
I really want some tips and help about what i can do to improve my awkwardness around guys i like. Or actually people in general
basically to make a long story short yesterday as i was going into my gym this personal trainer that i have the biggest crush on was coming out i've had a crush on him for so long and i just sneak glances at him every once in a while. so while i was walking i looked up and he was walking my way face to face. he was like 10 steps way. Instead of playing it cool and keep walking i froze and just stared at him i didn't know what to do then i moved into his way FROZE then moved back my way and kept walking. And my problem is anything i think or feel reads off on my face and through my eyes. I'm pretty sure he read the nervousness on my face and through my eyes. I got sooo nervous!! i hate this. I hate that I've been so awkward. Before when i had extra pounds and didn't look so good i had an amazing personality. I was outgoing and friendly and funny. And now that i look decent and people complement me and hit on me i act awkward and funny. I get nervous and don't know how to react and i don't even know how to respond so most of the time I come off as weird and awkward.
So my questions for all of you experienced people out there are:
1) do you guys think that the personal trainer knows i have a crush on him? he always catches me staring at him. now that i bumped into him and did that what do you think he thinks?
2) what i can i do to know if he is gay or not?
3) how can i be less awkward around people in general and stop being so nervous and shy?
What r the rules of engagement thread
I am fairly new to the open sector. I am a middle age gay man. i workout and have been told by my friends that i am a nice looking guy. However I am finding it hard to find that right someone to build a relationship with. How do u start out finding the right person when u reach your 40's?
Why do we discriminate so much in the gay community when we experience the same hatred and fight for acceptance from our country? Thread
May 28, 2010 9:39 PMIt is apparent that racial tension is in the gay community. When a person is still not completely satisfied with his nationality, ethnicity, and so on because he feels he will be not be accepted. How can the hated become the hater? I feel that those who know the depth of hurt, humiliation, and degradation this cruel device has caused them would be the first not to express this behavior towards others.
Reply post in thread Pictureless profiles
I personally don't post my pictures because I'm closeted to my family and I'm 25. But also I don't have a computer with a camera on it, neither do I own a camera. LOL!
But come to think of it, if anyone ever found my picture on here is because they're gay too, so maybe I should get myself a camera and post a pic of myself.
See, I had posted a new topic on a forum and two fellow gay guys said that I was this guy that comes back with different screen names and posts stupid topics, I was just like wow, today is my first day on this site and I get accused of being a faker.
But it makes sense why some would not want to talk to us.