Will the real Silhouette please step forward?

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    Jun 13, 2010 1:57 PM GMT

    It doesn't take a genius to figure it out. Reading the tone and ability of someones writing is part of comprehension. All of these profiles have similar questions and writing styles.

    Advice on meeting the all american guy thread

    Jun 13, 2010 9:06 AMI am a 32 year old, masculine, educated guy. I've been in the southern US my whole life and had very little luck meeting anyone with substance. I know that part of that is my fault because I don't put myself out there. I've never been a big fan of gay bars or the whole gay "scene". Combined with the fact that I only find myself attracted to masculine guys, meeting someone special has been a difficult process.

    I'm open to hearing advice on meeting an All-American type guy...my view of that is someone athletic, masculine, social, down-to-earth, smart, motivated, etc. It seems like there are quite a few guys like that on this site, so I thought I'd put myself out there to get some good advice!

    Side note: this isn't meant to be a "personals" ad...just really seeking advice!

    Thanks!



    OMG Help I'm so akward thread

    May 30, 2010 5:54 PMHey everyone!

    I really want some tips and help about what i can do to improve my awkwardness around guys i like. Or actually people in general

    basically to make a long story short yesterday as i was going into my gym this personal trainer that i have the biggest crush on was coming out i've had a crush on him for so long and i just sneak glances at him every once in a while. so while i was walking i looked up and he was walking my way face to face. he was like 10 steps way. Instead of playing it cool and keep walking i froze and just stared at him i didn't know what to do then i moved into his way FROZE then moved back my way and kept walking. And my problem is anything i think or feel reads off on my face and through my eyes. I'm pretty sure he read the nervousness on my face and through my eyes. I got sooo nervous!! i hate this. I hate that I've been so awkward. Before when i had extra pounds and didn't look so good i had an amazing personality. I was outgoing and friendly and funny. And now that i look decent and people complement me and hit on me i act awkward and funny. I get nervous and don't know how to react and i don't even know how to respond so most of the time I come off as weird and awkward.
    So my questions for all of you experienced people out there are:

    1) do you guys think that the personal trainer knows i have a crush on him? he always catches me staring at him. now that i bumped into him and did that what do you think he thinks?

    2) what i can i do to know if he is gay or not?


    3) how can i be less awkward around people in general and stop being so nervous and shy?



    What r the rules of engagement thread

    I am fairly new to the open sector. I am a middle age gay man. i workout and have been told by my friends that i am a nice looking guy. However I am finding it hard to find that right someone to build a relationship with. How do u start out finding the right person when u reach your 40's?

    Why do we discriminate so much in the gay community when we experience the same hatred and fight for acceptance from our country? Thread


    May 28, 2010 9:39 PMIt is apparent that racial tension is in the gay community. When a person is still not completely satisfied with his nationality, ethnicity, and so on because he feels he will be not be accepted. How can the hated become the hater? I feel that those who know the depth of hurt, humiliation, and degradation this cruel device has caused them would be the first not to express this behavior towards others.

    Reply post in thread Pictureless profiles

    I personally don't post my pictures because I'm closeted to my family and I'm 25. But also I don't have a computer with a camera on it, neither do I own a camera. LOL!

    But come to think of it, if anyone ever found my picture on here is because they're gay too, so maybe I should get myself a camera and post a pic of myself.

    See, I had posted a new topic on a forum and two fellow gay guys said that I was this guy that comes back with different screen names and posts stupid topics, I was just like wow, today is my first day on this site and I get accused of being a faker.

    But it makes sense why some would not want to talk to us.



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    Jun 13, 2010 2:22 PM GMT
    Get a life.

    What does it matter who posts what under which name? Who died and made you the fabulous Nazi Queen of Realjock?
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    Jun 13, 2010 2:26 PM GMT
    I have one and I don't need multiple profiles to engage in forums. maybe you do since your up in arms
  • calibro

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    Jun 13, 2010 5:08 PM GMT
    even if it is a multiple poster, what's the big deal?
  • Iluros

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    Jun 13, 2010 7:35 PM GMT
    A sockpuppet conspiracy. Inform MeOhMy at once. <3

    I think it might have more to do with the internet homogenizing the way we communicate. icon_wink.gif
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    Jun 13, 2010 7:42 PM GMT
    Which witch is which???
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    Jun 13, 2010 7:50 PM GMT
    unfounded7 saidWhich witch is which???


    Yumwhich!
  • Celticmusl

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    Jun 13, 2010 7:53 PM GMT
    Yeah, seriously it is kinda creepy and weird how many profiles one guy will have...... i.e. troll.

    Starting different threads.....meh....I don't really care. But using another no-pic profile for duplicitous reasons is beyond creepy and pathetic. It's not some bright idea. It's not smart. Most people will not do it because they are no longer in the 4th grade.

    So if you found out your SO has his normal pictured profile online that you know about, then a whole bunch of different no-picture profiles set up also so he can flirt and spy on guys that he's into it shows a whole new level of deceitfulness.

    I will have a personal one-on-one email chat with a guy here where he has his picture, correct stats, etc. Then the same guy has a conversation with me on a thread under the guise of a different no-pic member profile. Who has time for these games?

    blah.
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    Jun 13, 2010 7:54 PM GMT
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    Jun 13, 2010 11:24 PM GMT
    WhoCares saidfmi93c.jpg



    Says the handle/silhouette and the image...Too funny and how lame in the same breathe. Another multiple profile poster. GROW UP! Srsly who makes up a handle who cares only to have it hidden?
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    Jun 13, 2010 11:33 PM GMT
    Hillie does raise a valid point, so we shouldn't dismiss it with a holier than thou 'Ugh, your topic is of no concern to the general RJ populace' response. Identity duplicity can be potentially dangerous to our verified and valuable RJ members.
    A system of I.P. verification on the site could ameliorate the issue.

    That being said, said anonymous ghosts do more harm (or rather, less good) to themselves by creating false and shady circumstances around them. I'm sure the member or members who hide under multiple picture-less profiles are gay men just like the rest of us, but much more severely closeted with needs to reach out and feel a degree of interaction. It's a sad, pithy situation, really.
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    Jun 13, 2010 11:52 PM GMT
    I have very little tolerance for cowards who hide behind multiple profiles or post and immediately go into hiding again. I think it is best to ignore them. There are enough verified people on here.
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    Jun 14, 2010 12:12 AM GMT
    Hey cool, another thread to post in! Yay!
    What were we talking about again? icon_razz.gif
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    Jun 14, 2010 12:17 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidHey cool, another thread to post in! Yay!
    What were we talking about again? icon_razz.gif


    Somebody was about to make a lewd pass at me that I would initially feign as being appalled and insulted by but actually secretly aroused icon_wink.gif
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    Jun 14, 2010 12:18 AM GMT
    Ciarsolo said
    paulflexes saidHey cool, another thread to post in! Yay!
    What were we talking about again? icon_razz.gif


    Somebody was about to make a lewd pass at me that I would initially feign as being appalled and insulted by but actually secretly aroused icon_wink.gif



    Did paul flex his muscle at youicon_eek.gif
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    Jun 14, 2010 12:26 AM GMT
    Well, Hillie, if you notice, that topic about the guy and the 13 year old is Poof! Gone. And those fake profiles along with it. OohOohOoh and the others.
    Ghostbusters, lol!

    -Doug

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    Jun 14, 2010 12:28 AM GMT
    ~_~ seem a bit over rated to even care... i mean if someone want to post on 2,3 or 30 different pofiles who really cares... quite honest since i have met 0 people on realjocks every post other then mine could all be one person... if they are diversted enough to hold conversations with all their profiles let them be it further explain their personality in all forms
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    Jun 14, 2010 12:33 AM GMT
    Ciarsolo said
    paulflexes saidHey cool, another thread to post in! Yay!
    What were we talking about again? icon_razz.gif


    Somebody was about to make a lewd pass at me that I would initially feign as being appalled and insulted by but actually secretly aroused icon_wink.gif
    I know it wasn't me, then. I don't make lewd passes. I just strip him nekkid, jump on top, and hope he doesn't mind.
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    Jun 14, 2010 12:36 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    Ciarsolo said
    paulflexes saidHey cool, another thread to post in! Yay!
    What were we talking about again? icon_razz.gif


    Somebody was about to make a lewd pass at me that I would initially feign as being appalled and insulted by but actually secretly aroused icon_wink.gif
    I know it wasn't me, then. I don't make lewd passes. I just strip him nekkid, jump on top, and hope he doesn't mind.


    Dirty bastard how dare you
    harder...harder
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    Jun 14, 2010 12:38 AM GMT
    I have just the thread for the occasion ..
    Alter-Egos, Pseudo Identities, and Personas
    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/245263/
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    Jun 14, 2010 12:45 AM GMT
    bucalo said~_~ seem a bit over rated to even care... i mean if someone want to post on 2,3 or 30 different pofiles who really cares... quite honest since i have met 0 people on realjocks every post other then mine could all be one person... if they are diversted enough to hold conversations with all their profiles let them be it further explain their personality in all forms


    This site is another vehicle of communication for men of "like" Posting in forums is another avenue to get to know and observe members and feel connected to them on related topics and postings. When you create multiple personalities you loose value. it's really no different than those that post they only talk to members that are verified or have face pixs and although I come frm a faceless picture I clearly see the importance of their argument.
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    Jun 14, 2010 1:17 AM GMT


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    Jun 14, 2010 3:36 AM GMT
    The various personalities are fighting to all be heard, so they each have their own profile....Que in the ACTUAL and REAL psychologists in the RJ group...(not you Mary's that play one on your YOUTUBE shows!)..you know who you are...icon_lol.gif
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    Jun 14, 2010 3:42 AM GMT
    Oh no, Sporty_g!

    Ugh, that's us. We (sometimes Bill, sometimes Doug) put up youtube songs to help 'splain things, Lucy. icon_wink.gificon_lol.gif

    - Old us
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    Jun 14, 2010 3:48 AM GMT
    meninlove said Oh no, Sporty_g!

    Ugh, that's us. We (sometimes Bill, sometimes Doug) put up youtube songs to help 'splain things, Lucy. icon_wink.gificon_lol.gif

    - Old us



    LOL!!! NO!!! YOU GUYS ARE THE EXACT TYPE OF LOGIC AND GOOD COMMON SENSE WE NEED!...I 'm talking about the mean and nasty flame war queens......LOL! Much LUV and many HUGZ! icon_lol.gif