"There ARE good ones out there"...well if he is he needs to hurry up and get here because im bored...

  • Silent_Angel

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    Feb 04, 2008 2:51 AM GMT
    ok

    So I meet these guys and they are into me adn i am into them ...or so it seems...then for some reason they just STOP TALIKING TO ME.it's like what the hell...so im just wondering ...how many of you have found him and how many of you havent?icon_exclaim.gificon_neutral.gif
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    Feb 04, 2008 4:20 AM GMT
    honey... go offline and go OUT THERE!!! don't take yourself too seriously in front of your computericon_eek.gif

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    Feb 04, 2008 4:27 AM GMT
    Silent_Angel saidso im just wondering ...how many of you have found him and how many of you havent?
    Don't feel bad .. there are many people that would like to UNFIND him once they got him.
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    Feb 04, 2008 4:45 AM GMT
    Silent_Angel saidok

    So I meet these guys and they are into me adn i am into them ...or so it seems...then for some reason they just STOP TALIKING TO ME.it's like what the hell...so im just wondering ...how many of you have found him and how many of you havent?icon_exclaim.gificon_neutral.gif


    If he wasn't the one blow the dude off and move on. Haven't found the one yet but I've seen bits and pieces of him from many guys I come across. Wait... the dude that works at my gym probably is the one only I think I need to tell him icon_smile.gif
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    Feb 04, 2008 4:56 AM GMT
    Just remember Silent_Angel, once you find him, you'll have to stop looking for him.
    Then what the fuck are you going to fill your days with??
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    Feb 04, 2008 5:11 AM GMT
    GuiltyGear saidJust remember Silent_Angel, once you find him, you'll have to stop looking for him.
    Then what the fuck are you going to fill your days with??

    Therapy, trips to the pharmacy to buy antidepressants and Viagra, researching his cell phone records, going through his wallet....
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    Feb 04, 2008 5:22 AM GMT
    obscenewish saidThen what the fuck are you going to fill your days with??
    Therapy, trips to the pharmacy to buy antidepressants and Viagra, researching his cell phone records, going through his wallet....
    You are very insightful. You should be a psychotherapist.
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    Feb 04, 2008 5:27 AM GMT
    ActiveAndFit said[quote][cite]obscenewish said[/cite]Then what the fuck are you going to fill your days with??
    Therapy, trips to the pharmacy to buy antidepressants and Viagra, researching his cell phone records, going through his wallet....
    You are very insightful. You should be a psychotherapist.[/quote]


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    Feb 04, 2008 5:32 AM GMT
    Sporty_g saidHE IS!!!icon_lol.gificon_lol.gif
    icon_eek.gif hey wait .. that makes me insightful too icon_biggrin.gif
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    Feb 04, 2008 5:35 AM GMT
    ^This seems to be getting insightfully circular. But there are worse things than viagra filled days.
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    Feb 04, 2008 8:46 AM GMT
    Get thee to a sauna.
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    Feb 04, 2008 8:49 AM GMT
    I see a lot of right ones... but then I'm the wrong one.

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    Feb 04, 2008 8:49 AM GMT
    Hon - get real and actually meet somone! You are way too much of a catch to rely on the net!
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    Feb 04, 2008 12:28 PM GMT
    obscenewish saidTherapy, trips to the pharmacy to buy antidepressants and Viagra, researching his cell phone records, going through his wallet....


    LMAO
  • Silent_Angel

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    Feb 05, 2008 3:29 AM GMT
    i really wouldnt have a problenm going out and hooking a local yokel...however i live in the middle of no whare a small red neck town...
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    Feb 05, 2008 5:00 PM GMT
    Silent_Angel saidi really wouldnt have a problenm going out and hooking a local yokel...however i live in the middle of no whare a small red neck town...


    I can relate - I grew-up in a conservative farming town of about 800 people. Things changed for me when I went to college and was able to meet all kinds of different people (not just gay). I actually grew into myself and eventually had the confidence to come-out to my Parents. The funny thing is that even in a small town there was some gay subculture - the mayor was gay as well as several of the popular teachers - and everyone knew! I would recommend contacting gay organizations and social groups in the next largest town - it would give you a chance to meet people in your area as well as in person. The internet is great for casual conversations and chat - but to really find the right guy you need to meet him and get to know him in person. I dated a lot of flakes (yes - some from the net) before I found my Partner - which was a set-up date from friends.