Boy I'm seeing

  • Onemoresummer

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    Jun 15, 2010 1:02 PM GMT
    The boy I'm seeing still logs onto manhunt.
    He's profile is blank in the headline and about me part but it still kinda worries me he uses it.

    I was kinda sneaky and loged in with his username and saw he hadn't sent any messages (at least not in past 4 weeks) but why do you think he'd still be logging on?

    He told me HATED me having a grindr account so I deleted it even though he still has his.

    Shoud i be concerned?
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    Jun 15, 2010 1:29 PM GMT
    Just break up with him now. Trust issues never get resolved.
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    Jun 15, 2010 2:05 PM GMT
    Loco11 is anysound we think. Man we dislike fake profiles.
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    Jun 15, 2010 2:16 PM GMT
    Loco11 saidThe boy I'm seeing still logs onto manhunt.
    He's profile is blank in the headline and about me part but it still kinda worries me he uses it.

    I was kinda sneaky and loged in with his username and saw he hadn't sent any messages (at least not in past 4 weeks) but why do you think he'd still be logging on?

    He told me HATED me having a grindr account so I deleted it even though he still has his.

    Shoud i be concerned?


    You two sound perfect for each other!
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    Jun 15, 2010 2:17 PM GMT
    Loco11... I think you're a fake too.
    Buut seriously, guys, this snooping shit ends relationships.
    Take it from me... I know from whence I speak.
  • calibro

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    Jun 15, 2010 3:47 PM GMT
    well loco11, all you have to do is tell anysound to read this post and i'm sure he'll get the picture.
  • maximumrisk

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    Jun 15, 2010 4:36 PM GMT
    Loco11 saidThe boy I'm seeing still logs onto manhunt.
    He's profile is blank in the headline and about me part but it still kinda worries me he uses it.

    I was kinda sneaky and loged in with his username and saw he hadn't sent any messages (at least not in past 4 weeks) but why do you think he'd still be logging on?

    He told me HATED me having a grindr account so I deleted it even though he still has his.

    Shoud i be concerned?


    You should be concerned as to why you did that. Are you freaking insane for snooping behind your new BF´s back.

    Just Imagine, I am still logging on to a gay community where I dont have any chance on getting sex. I am simply logging in to talk to Friends I have had for about 10 years now. Should I ditch them just because I am dating someone?

    Sounds heartless, but either you are perfect for each other or simply too jealous to work. I would go for the secound, since both of you want that the other to cut all contacts from his live before and at least he doesnt seem to do it himself.
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    Jun 15, 2010 4:38 PM GMT
    calibro saidwell loco11, all you have to do is tell anysound to read this post and i'm sure he'll get the picture.


    ROFL!
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    Jun 15, 2010 9:28 PM GMT
    Well, everyone seems to think you're a fake, so i think this picture fits, whether you are or not.. well, i guess it doesn't matter. i just like the picture. icon_smile.gif

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    Jun 15, 2010 9:30 PM GMT
    SNOOPINg Dude majr no-no..... Thats the worst you can do.....

    If you cant trust someone.. PLEASE Break up with them ..

    You are not doing you or that person a favor
  • BlackBeltGuy

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    Jun 15, 2010 9:40 PM GMT
    if you do it, then he does it.

    if he can prove to you he has valuable friendships on manhunt and adam4adam and grindr.....then tell him to take them off the net and put them in his cell.

    sounds fishy to me. icon_eek.gif
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    Jun 15, 2010 10:05 PM GMT
    If I had an SO that I found out was snooping on me, that would end the relationship. Either immediately or in short order. I don't have anything to hide, but either your partner trusts you or you're constantly having to give assurances of your fidelity. And frankly that's just tiresome.
  • Celticmusl

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    Jun 15, 2010 11:04 PM GMT
    I usually don't snoop and I think it's disrespectful. But then again most of my relationships end when the other guy cheats, lol. It really doesn't matter if you snoop or not, you eventually find out. I guess the difference is when and where. I would like to know sooner rather than later.

    I have never done anything of an improper nature in any relationship I've ever had. But I must admit all of my serious relationships have been established pre-manhunt and pre-realjock. So I guess in a relationship I would want to negotiate total access/knowledge on pretty much everything....once the relationship gets to "life partner" status.
  • Celticmusl

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    Jun 15, 2010 11:11 PM GMT
    Global_Citizen saidIf I had an SO that I found out was snooping on me, that would end the relationship. Either immediately or in short order. I don't have anything to hide, but either your partner trusts you or you're constantly having to give assurances of your fidelity. And frankly that's just tiresome.



    I'm not sure if I could constantly deal with someone snooping on me, but then again I can easily understand and deeply sympathize why someone would feel that they had to snoop on their SO.

    At first it is insulting that someone does not trust me, but then I think I could get over that and just assure him that everything is ok. I have nothing to hide.
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    Jun 15, 2010 11:21 PM GMT
    Just get him to share his passwords with you... my bf has all my passwords except work-related stuff, my personal email, and Facebook, and I have his (yes, even to RJ). It will keep both of you honest as long as you establish rules for each other's account use, etc. It can get more complicated when there are nude photo sharing sites e.g. dudesnude thrown in, so you're gonna have to discuss those with him as well; there was a thread on here about that recently.