Dick tease

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    Jun 17, 2010 1:12 AM GMT
    Hi, continuing my former topic "first time" I want to post another one. I am not quite sure if it makes any sense after I posted it, but what the heck I´m f****** drunk.
    I visited the gay club once again (btw. there are only twinks or very old people there and despite the fact that I was checked out oftenly and not very subtle, I cameto the conclusion that apparently twinks expect you to make the first step (what´s up with that???)) Anyway I met this amazing guy, went home with him but short of any sexual conduct I chickened out because I was too drunk. This actually has happenend not for the first time (Gayromeoicon_biggrin.gif). I haven´t had sex with gays because I had a hard time actuallly aknowledging to myself the fact that I´m gay. So I was wondering if there are deeper issues with me, id that is normal or if I just posted something embaressing while beeing completly drunkicon_biggrin.gif
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    Jun 17, 2010 1:15 AM GMT
    Iamme saidSo I was wondering if there are deeper issues with me,
    Only as deep as the bottom of the bottle. icon_wink.gif
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    Jun 17, 2010 1:41 AM GMT
    The bars are still hopping after midnight on a Wednesday in Karlsruhe? Who knew?

    There is nothing abnormal with what you did. What you call chickening out is probably your guts telling you that you are not ready to have sex with this guy right now. Keep listening to your intuition, it will save you from bad experiences.

    You and probably everybody else has grown up with stuff like
    "have sex only in marriage'",
    "have sex only with someone I love",
    "have sex only when it's meaningful" etc.
    You need to figure out eventually whether you want to continue to operate under these rules (which is ok) or whether to relax them and enjoy hook-ups, one-night-stands etc. as well.

    But you can figure all of this out when your hang-over has gone away.icon_wink.gif