ugh, self conscious.

  • tbeaux

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    Jun 20, 2010 12:43 AM GMT
    I know this gets old, and I read it all the time, but I just have to say today I'm having a self conscious day. For anyone else who gets these days, do you do anything to make you feel better?
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    Jun 20, 2010 1:30 AM GMT
    I hate those days, I just avoid looking in the mirror for a long time (like I do all the other days haha) and I try not to compare myself with hot guys I see in the street icon_wink.gif The days I don't feel self-conscious I love comparing myself to other guys and mentally saying- I'm hotter than himicon_lol.gif
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    Jun 20, 2010 3:36 AM GMT
    We all get that way. The best thing to do, is to let those feelings have space and acknowledge them.

    Yes, I've had years of therapy. Great way to clean the clutter in my head.icon_lol.gif
  • mybud

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    Jun 20, 2010 3:40 AM GMT
    tbakes18 saidI know this gets old, and I read it all the time, but I just have to say today I'm having a self conscious day. For anyone else who gets these days, do you do anything to make you feel better?


    Dude seriously.....You shouldn't feel self conscious about shit...cause your fine......just sayin the truth....BUD
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    Jun 20, 2010 3:40 AM GMT
    tbakes18 saidI know this gets old, and I read it all the time, but I just have to say today I'm having a self conscious day. For anyone else who gets these days, do you do anything to make you feel better?


    Realize that everyone else is feeling just as self-conscious.
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    Jun 20, 2010 5:03 AM GMT
    tbakes18 saidI know this gets old, and I read it all the time, but I just have to say today I'm having a self conscious day. For anyone else who gets these days, do you do anything to make you feel better?
    I don't do "anything" - he has to be hot.
    PS. You're hot enough to do...ya know...if I'm having a self conscious day and stuff. icon_biggrin.gif
  • Webster666

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    Jun 20, 2010 5:28 AM GMT
    Yeh, I stopped caring.
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    Jun 20, 2010 5:41 AM GMT
    I eat very unhealthy stuff... ...going outdoors and ambling also helps. wait- that's depressed...

    Self-conscious in what way?
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    Jun 20, 2010 7:17 PM GMT
    Self conscious about what?

    In general, just realize everyone feels self conscious or insecure sometimes, even people who seem very confident and secure feel self conscious. It's just part of being human.

    Really, everyone else is pretty much focused on themselves or will forget whatever event made you self conscious. Hope that helps.
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    Jun 20, 2010 7:27 PM GMT
    Get out of yourself and go help somebody else; it works every time for me.
  • tbeaux

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    Jun 21, 2010 4:35 AM GMT
    I would just feel self conscious about my body. I used to be very very ripped and everything, then I moved out on my own when I turned 18 and couldn't afford that healthy stuff. It's just a shift. Usually I am very self confident, but some days I am just a total mess.
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    Jun 21, 2010 4:38 AM GMT
    You grow out of puberty!..
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    Jun 21, 2010 4:42 AM GMT
    Everybody is a mess at 19.

    Everybody.
  • comical44

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    Jun 21, 2010 4:44 AM GMT
    I get like this sometimes. I listen to music, chill with family or friends and try to remind myself to stop being too hard on myself bc thats how I am. I am my own worst enemy/critic. Point out all the good things about yourself
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    Jun 21, 2010 4:44 AM GMT
    youre cute. id vote u man of the day... im not verified lol..whatever that means.
  • mybud

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    Jun 21, 2010 8:57 PM GMT
    tbakes18 saidI would just feel self conscious about my body. I used to be very very ripped and everything, then I moved out on my own when I turned 18 and couldn't afford that healthy stuff. It's just a shift. Usually I am very self confident, but some days I am just a total mess.



    Dude.... if you use the words...."I'm a mess".....You manifesting those thoughts about yourself....Say instead, "I'm working towards a healthy lifestyle"....Any negative that comes from your mouth...self correct into affirming positive statements.......I see your beauty....you need to see this beauty in yourself.....All the best.....BUD
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    Jun 22, 2010 12:33 AM GMT
    You look fine. Nothing to be self conscious about being slim and trim, as long as you're healthy.

    I'm slim myself so I get self conscious sometimes about being slim but I'm adding some muscle on. I even get self conscious about being tall, as ridiculous as that sounds. Don't be so hard on yourself as there's all types of bodies out there and everyone is attracted to different things.

    Personality counts in the long run.icon_wink.gif
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    Jun 22, 2010 12:41 AM GMT
    People really don't look at each other that close, and most people couldn't tell you what you wearing yesterday. The people that are scrutinizing you, like looking at you, and won't be critical.
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    Jun 22, 2010 12:48 AM GMT
    On those not so confident days, I make sure im clean and well groomed and wear all black.
    Or I get a haircut. That always makes me feel better.icon_cool.gif
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    Jun 22, 2010 12:51 AM GMT


    Its true......... this song is lame.
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    Jun 22, 2010 12:53 AM GMT
    Greg0201 saidEverybody is a mess at 19.

    Everybody.


    Its true. But then everbody's still a hot mess after 19, lol!

    Youre fine, aint nuthin wrong with you. icon_wink.gif
  • tbeaux

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    Jun 22, 2010 1:38 AM GMT
    thanks very much you guys.