I think for the first time in my life i am genuinely in love

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    Feb 05, 2008 7:09 AM GMT
    I aways have had the issue of trust and emotiona difficuties as well and plenty of men have fallen head over heels for me but never before was i able to truly reciprocate these strong emotiona feelings.
    there was one time that i did feel the sense of loss and a feeling of love that i had trouble understanding and when i actually was in love back it was too late with carlos and i regretted breaking up with him.

    I don't think he loves me anymore but that is ok because i have moved on and am now going slow with a new man that i already have strong feelings for but won't say it out loud quite yet because it is too soon and i don't want to seem stalkeresque or something.

    I have never btw had such strong feelings so early into something is that what love at first sight refers to because i always had a hard time beieving such a thing could exist besides lust at first sight.

    Of course the first time i met him I was in a relationship and he remembers the first time we met a ot better than i. SO i asked him to describe it to me and his words his face everything about him makes me feel like i am drowning in pure extacy.

    Oh and something is wrong with my keyboard so please relax yourselves with my typos and bad grammar. It's already making me feel agitated. So please eave it alone.
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    Feb 05, 2008 9:29 AM GMT
    Congratulations. You are truly infatuated. There may be love there too, but it sounds too early to tell. Infatuation is the overwhelming feeling of attraction, where everything makes you happy and everything he does and says is perfect, funny, beautiful, etc.
    It's when you've both admitted and shown your faults and flaws and admitted your fears and made mistakes to your partner and still feel that strongly, that you are in love.
    You are young. That's not a meant as a condescension but merely an observation. The power of infatuation is great and often wonderful and something to be enjoyed. It is always easy to pronounce 'love' when all is well. It is in the times of need and strife when it is truly displayed. It is when you freely communicate the good and the bad. It is when you can be forgiven and you can forgive. It is when you are each as good as your word and accepted for it as it is expressed.
    I want to reiterate that I'm not saying that you aren't in love, but rather that you are infatuated and it's often assumed to be the same.
    I've made this mistake before and I've learned from life's errors. So I give you this unsolicited information from the wisdom of an 'old guy'.
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    Feb 06, 2008 6:25 PM GMT
    Well you don't look old but i am sure on some level or another you could be right but i am ok with my delusions of it being love.icon_smile.gif
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    Feb 12, 2008 3:55 AM GMT
    And didn't you just totally show your age, lol.
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    Feb 12, 2008 4:07 AM GMT
    Diana loves you too!icon_redface.gif