Staying hard while getting fucked

  • FuzionMan

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    Jun 21, 2010 7:18 AM GMT
    I've always found it difficult to stay hard while I'm getting fucked. Does anybody out there have this problem?

    In fact, the harder the guy fucks my ass, the more difficult it is for me to sustain my hard-on. I have to really focus my mind to keep myself hard. I've tried stroking myself but it doesn't help. And it's not the pain of getting fucked either that's making me lose my hard-on! Recently, when I was getting fucked, I started to lose my hard-on. The guy got a little upset and hinted that I wasn't interested! It made me feel really, really bad. I don't really understand this because I'm so into this guy and was REALLY enjoying him fucking my ass.

    My ultimate dream is to stay hard and then cum while getting fucked without touching myself at all. Personally, I think this would be the best compliment I can give a top! I try not to play with myself when I'm being fucked. I feel it's distracting for me, not to mention I've been told many times by lots of tops that it's rude. Instead of touching myself, I usually touch my man, play with his nipples, kiss him...

  • rnch

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    Jun 21, 2010 2:10 PM GMT
    contrary to what we see in gay porno movies; not every guy stays hard when bottoming. more than a few guys go soft!

    you are not alone, you are not are you.

    if your top partner gets insulted because you go soft as he rails you; then that's HIS problem.
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    Jun 21, 2010 2:15 PM GMT
    I used to stay hard when I bottomed but nowadays I don't, though I don't prefer to bottom these days, it doesn't bother me too much but it does make it harder to cum after the guy is finished.

    Would you get hard if the guy rubs against your prostate?
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    Jun 21, 2010 2:23 PM GMT
    This only works with me if there is love in the equation, otherwise it feels as ridiculous as (from a clinical point of view) just a bit of rhythmic piston bouncing.

    For me, it's only the emotion that causes the soldier to stand at attention. Otherwise, I'd best be topping.
  • rnch

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    Jun 21, 2010 3:49 PM GMT
    i have noticed that some sexual postitions give me wood (or a semi-stiffie) than others. icon_cool.gif
  • safety43_mma1...

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    Jun 21, 2010 4:23 PM GMT
    staying hard isnt a problem for me when being a bottom most of the time but there does have to be feelings involved or it wont work i am over the whole lets fuck thing. it is fun everyonce in a while but not all the time.
  • razorcake

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    Jun 21, 2010 4:38 PM GMT
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    Jun 21, 2010 6:00 PM GMT
    I also believe that if there isnt some sort of feelings involved I cant stay hard when I bottom. The "wham bam thank you sir" doesnt do it for me anymore.