I thought I would give this site a chance in my quest to try and meet intelligent, in shape, interesting guys. Maybe there's a site or a bar, or a place I haven't found yet where all these guys, (or at least one of them), hang out? I drink very little, so the bars aren't a real option. I think just about everyone that I've ever met in a bar has had a drinking problem of some sort. So, here's what I'd like to find:

In shape guy that works out, lifts weights, plays some sports, is average to good looking, has a job, is happy with work, and likes to hike, bike, and travel. If you don't have friends, there's probably a reason why. I'll share mine, but have at least one or two to vouch for what kind of person you are. If you came from a family of alcoholics or drug abusers, or just abusers, I can deal with that as long as you've taken the steps to deal with that first. If you're still in denial, I'm not going to be able to help you, as I'm not a therapist. Be confident, and secure. I can help to support you if and when you need it, but I can't carry you. I can tell you what I want, and I can listen to what you want, and it would be great if we were both capable of responding to that for each other, because sacrifice is a part of loving someone. If you're already too selfish to understand what sacrifice for someone else is all about, then we're not a good fit.

I'm sure that I get filtered out by a lot of guys because of the age factor. So shallow. I've been told numerous times that I look 10 years younger than I am, which is a blessing and a curse at times. Thanks, Mom and Dad. I act 20 years younger than my age, so I'm usually finding myself with guys that are late 30s to early 40's. Not sure that's a good thing. But I don't meet a lot of guys my age that haven't given up already, I guess. Some guys my age are in shape but lack the energy and love of life that I have. I've had three guys in my life that have taught me valuable lessons. The first taught me that no matter how close you get, how much you share in common, and how much you care, if there isn't that chemistry that exists between two people, you are destined to fail as a couple. The second taught me that sometimes there are personal issues that prevent people from loving as fully and completely as they should and could to be in a real adult relationship. And the third taught me that there is only one person that can fix those personal issues, and that must come from within.

I can be comfortable hiking in the mountains, watching football, or attending a symphony, because I'm with you and that makes any or all enjoyable. It would be nice if you were educated, but that can come from reading and thinking instead of a university degree. It is important to me that you are self aware. That you know how what you do and say affects others and that you have thought the deep thoughts that make you that way. And you need to be fun. And know how to have fun and laugh. And know how to share that with someone else.

And if you have all of that, or can tell me where to find that, then the size of your dick, or the fact that you're hairy or bald, cut or uncut, blond or dark haired, old or young, or have any of the other uncontrollable features that god gave us to make us individual, isn't really going to matter. Just control the things that you can. I'll still want to meet you.

I'll know you when I meet you....I'm in WI now, but will travel because I can't seem to meet the right guys here.

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