I am personality type ENFJ: "Pedagogue" (but I'm very close to being ENTJ: "Field Marshall"). Outstanding group leaders. Try hard to help others be the best that they can be. 5% of the total population.

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I speak four languages, although my secondary languages are far from perfect and are getting rusty! In addition to English I know français (French), español (Spanish), and magyarul (Hungarian).

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Love my BFF, and former lover, Dave (yourname2000) to bits. I've moved our couple pix to my privates, though... it's hard to keep getting couple-related remarks. I still think the world of him... make no mistake about it!

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Friend: "Thom, if there was a gutter within 20km, your mind would fall into it."
ME: "My range is at least 25km."

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Manhunt Orientation Translation Matrix (for Vancouver):
Bottom --> Yup, total bottom. And owning it!
Bottom/Versatile --> Still a bottom, will pretend to have some top ability to snag a guy to fill his holes.
Versatile --> Bottom, but open-minded.
Top/Versatile --> Trickier. Could be a top that's only "oral" versatile, or "gets fucked in a blue moon". Or could be a bottom in waiting. A toss-up for interpretation.
Top --> 50% chance true top, 50% chance bottom-in-waiting for the right guy.
Oral Only --> Bottom that just wants to ease into it.
JO Only --> Fooling himself

Well... to be very honest, against all expectations, I may very well have found him. I'm not interested in exploring anything else... but friends are good, though!

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