Hi guys! I’m a 46 year old who has decided to get back into shape. About three years ago I had back problems that got better when I started going to our local YMCA. Unfortunately, I felt like I was the only gay guy there and was only making friends with women in my age group… I drifted away and my body has gone back to where I was (absent the back problem fortunately). My first task here is to find a ‘gay friendly’ gym in the San Jose area.

I am a trained as a massage therapist and will consider full body exchange massage (if paid its clinical only).

For those that are interested: I have taken current ‘before’ adult photos that I will post when ‘after’ starts showing up. I have been in my relationship for 14 years; we do some (safe) play.

1) I’d like to fine a local (San Jose area) gym group for social and educational reasons. I want to be guided into really knowing about bodybuilding and I want to like the guys I’m around.

2) On line I am open for good input. It would be fun to chat with guys who are on the road of improvement but like me have a way to go.

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