Whenever I need to write something about myself it's always a moment for me to sit back and evaluate who I was, who I am, and who I want to be. Coming out was the most difficult thing I've ever had to do, but I guess it was especially challenging because I still don't quite know how to tell someone who I am when I'm just beginning to admit and explore who that person is myself...I am a man, an artist, a musician, a dancer, an actor, an athlete, a student, I'm impassioned, I'm empathetic, a listener, a shoulder, a hugger, a cuddler, a nuzzler, and a lending hand.

"Love who you are and someone else might do the same."
-ZANNA Don't!

I've never had a relationship last past three weeks. DAMAGED GOODS ALERT!!! I bet you're wondering, "What's wrong with this guy that he can't hold a guy down for more than three weeks?!?" Besides my skinny arms (haha), I happen to live in Kansas! Land of the conservatives and home of the weenies!- I prefer kielbasa (it's Polish and spicy:-D )

I've been lifting for six years now (along with dancing 10 hrs a week, track and swimming/diving in hs), and I know it doesn't show as much as it does on other dudes but I'm finding it very difficult gaining mass, so anyone with success and experience who's willing to lend a hand and share some good tips would be a great help. I've been gaining a bit lately because of a complete overhaul of my diet so maybe I found the secret!

I'm a big kid at heart- born and raised on the Disney classics of the 80's and 90's, I'm originally from Ohio. "I don't know when, I don't know how, but I know something's starting right now...watch and you'll see, someday I'll be, part of your world..." if you got the blatant tribute to my favorite animated musical- I'm yours:-D

I'm a student at the Univ. of KS studying theatre, voice, and dance- I aspire to one day be on a broadway stage and see my name in lights- help me make it happen? Friends, networking and support are just as important as my own drive!

I'm a dork, an alliance, and a great friend- I cherish my friends and family above all, because they're such a gift. I'm also a spiritual man- I was raised Catholic and still consider myself to be today- I've struggled in many ways that gay men have with the Church, but I'm trying to keep faith in it, it's power for good, and power to change the world in these unfortunate times. I still look to God and have faith in his goodness and strength.

Three final very important things- I drink Diet Coke (my life nectar) out of wine glasses every so often because it makes me feel special, I leave judging to God, and my greatest fear is dying alone. If I catch your eye, please say hi:-D

PS- all of my pix are from various times over the past two years, but I just uploaded some new ones on 1-10-08 so enjoy!

I'm living in Creede, CO this summer from May 17-Aug 25. Don't know far that is from civilization, but I hear we put on some kick-ass shows, so attendance is welcome:-D

I'm just a boy at heart who wants to love another boy...I'm looking to meet someone who values life and their fitness as much as I do. I'm interested in guys who are young at heart, playful, and who know what they want out of life. I like guys to be intelligent, but not too serious and I like guys to be serious about their health, but not obsessive. Most importantly, I like guys who can make me laugh.

I'm not interested in fakes, both on this site and in real life- as far as real life goes, don't lead me on and play a role to try to get a lay- it won't happen and people get hurt in the end. Some guys seem to think it's fun to act interested to have a good time in the present: I'm looking for a longterm, devoted man who I can count on, not a flake who just wants to add another notch on his belt- I want to wake up to you every morning and not only take comfort in knowing that I'm happy to be in your arms, but to know that you'd crawl back into bed in your work clothes just to nuzzle for a few more minutes before heading off to work. I'm obviously a huge hopeless romantic...unfortunately I'm afraid I've already accepted that something like this just...doesn't exist. Prove me wrong?

Just be honest about who you are and I'll value that above all else- You don't NEED a picture of yourself, but please don't post a pic of a model and expect to be respected. I pride myself in not being shallow and seeing everyone for their inner-worth. After all, the majority of us have lived a life of ridicule and resentment so why not accept...how can we be accepted by society if we don't accept each other and ourselves?

I know I'm not the most built man on this site- I'm working on it like the rest of us so give me a chance- I'm a great guy to know!

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