on here primarily for inspiration and to meet LOCAL people for possible SOCIAL interaction. if you like what you see or read, just say hi. open to dates, events or hanging with good guys, as schedule permits. live in southern california but get to atlanta and seattle occasionally.

i'm Myers-Briggs ESFJ. a healthcare professional. serious, but nice.

i'm turned on by INTEGRITY, monogamy, nerds, big ears and good spellers.

i'm ultra tired of the ultra-tired platitude 'drama-free'.

i loathe the bird finger.

last ten songs i purchased:
"the lovers are losing" by keane
"the high road" by broken bells
"low rising" by the swell season
"stars and boulevards" by augustana
"heaven" by brett dennen
"til summer comes around" by keith urban
"basement apt." by sarah harmer
"kandi" by one eskimo
"fugitive" by david gray
"born again" by cory chisel and the wandering sons

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the fine print....

1. i don't respond to messages from FACELESS profiles.
2. not much of an online 'buddy'... will definitely respond to 'hi' and online messages. just don't make a lot of time for ongoing IM or chats. i think buddy listing and hot listing are poor attempts at communicating. if you're local and hot, convince me to meet in person!
3. NOT INTERESTED IN CASUAL SEXUAL HOOKUPS!

drawn to lean, smooth, ripped, sexy, career professionals. open and comfortable. no nonsense, 'non-scene'.

+ men with balls... metaphorical ones!
+ men able to cope with life/drama (see above)
+ men able to leap tall buildings in a single bound
+ men who aren't 'laid back' or 'easy going'... ad nauseam
+ maybe one man who might convince me i'm still gay and would prefer to be in a relationship
- no one whose profile screams 'me, me, me'. quiet confidence is sexy. having multiple websites
promoting yourself not so much. don't wanna be a third wheel for a divo and his ego :-)
- no one whose 'guys i'm looking to meet' section says '..."someone like me"... arghhh.

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