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- Member since: 07/06/10
- Last active: More than a week ago
- Age: 51
- First location: New York, New York, United States
- Relationship Status: Single
- Looking for: Friends, Dating or Relationship, Hookup
My Stats and Info
- Build: Athletic
- Height: 6' 0''
- Weight: 175 lbs
- Waist: 30 inches
- Chest: 44 inches
- Hair color: Brown
- Eye color: Green
- Ethnicity: White
- My gym:
- Weight training: 5 times per week
60 minutes per session
- Cardio training: 4 times per week
60 minutes per session
- Sports I like: Bodybuilding, Cycling, Football (American), Skating, Skiing, Snowboarding, Swimming, Tennis, Volleyball, Water polo
- Other sports I like:
- HIV status: HIV -
- Safer sex?: Always
Smart. Sane. Sensual. Real. That's already quite a list. I've done a great deal in my life - native New Yorker, lived in Europe for over 20 years, have been married and divorced, have had a few very significant relationships with men over the years. Still believe that it's more about the person than the plumbing, but I guess that might put me in the minority here. Sex is, after all, a conversation, and there is a world of things to "discuss."
Very recently single after a break up with the guy who introduced me to this site, and am ready for whatever life may choose to send my way.
Into lots of sports - but mostly tennis, swimming, horseback riding (yes - that still gets done), snowboarding.
I've got 10 acres in the country upstate New York where I tend to spend some weekends. It's beautiful, peaceful, and offers me a place to actually do some truly necessary, and even a bit primal, physical labor. They say it's good for the soul....I guess. But it's much better to share with someone than to enjoy alone....
Two large dogs - very different breeds - but very complementary. Don't get cats - nothing against them, just don't understand the seeming unidirectional nature of the relationship.
I tend to attract younger guys - perhaps because of the image of "having my shit" together I've been told I project. There are some plusses there, and some minuses - as I'm sure many of you have also experienced. Age enables one to acquire some experience, though it certainly is no determinant of wisdom....Too heavy? I'll leave it there.
Guys I'm Looking To Meet
Looking - like most everyone else - for a connection: spiritual, physical (including sports) and emotional. Not looking for narcissists, "all about me" selfish types, or people in"open relationships" -though I'm not sure what that means (and neither do they usually). Also, not looking for guys who are married to their families or careers. Too negative? Let me try again. Looking for someone who has lived long enough (and there is no absolute numeric value here), has learned enough about themselves, to understand that two can work as one without necessarily becoming one,, and that caring for and about each other, is what makes things work. And having great ground strokes helps too.
So, if you're strong in your mind and your body, curious about life and its questions, like to live in your body and not just your head - though both should be in top shape - don't have all the answers, but is aware of the questions - well, you'll know what to do. And by the way, it is essential that you hate sleeping alone. I do.
Surprise me. Impress me with everything about you. Don't be afraid. And most of all, trust that good things can and do happen if you give them a chance.
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