I'm an artist, writer and recently retired escort who's open about his colorful past. I'm the visual arts editor of a arts magazine and have an exhibition of paintings coming up. Check out the video trailer for it below.

One thing anyone looking for a sexual connection should know about me: I fixate on muscle the way most(?) other gays fixate on dicks or assholes. I love pretty much everything about both sides of muscle worship, which I consider one of the highest expressions and celebrations of masculinity around. I love being the bigger/stronger guy, the smaller/weaker guy or evenly matched with the other guy. I love dominating and being dominated. I have no wrestling skills but love to playfully "wrestle around." I love giving and receiving bear hugs and testing each other's strength. I love arm wrestling (again, no technique here). I love getting pounded in the abs and chest and will gladly reciprocate if the guy likes that too. I love the pump all that exertion gives both our muscles, and I love feeling wiped out afterwards. If you consider that foreplay, you're not doing it right.

Also, I think anal sex is seriously overrated, especially in the context of casual sex. It has nothing to do with why I'm gay. And while blowjobs can be fun, giving or receiving them on the first hookup is an efficient way to spread STDs like gonorrhea, which are increasingly drug-resistant and becoming more difficult and expensive to treat.. Don't know how to have to have sex without someone's dick going up someone's ass or down someone's throat? Now's an excellent time to learn and to start redefining your ideas of safe sex to account for STDs besides HIV.

I'm into smooth, muscular or slim/defined types. LOVE bodybuilders and truly ripped jocks, especially if they love to flex and show it off (as do I). But I have a lot of hot times with smaller slim guys, and you'll see a fair number of them on my hot list.

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