I am a spontaneous outdoor loving mans man who enjoys all that a gay man can! I enjoy working out but have never really been able to get really muscular usually i get leaner and defined. I always wanted to be like 190 or so but that seems like a dream. I am a hard gainer, and almost have accepted that. If anyone out there has a secret to putting on pounds tell me now! I am a remodler and handyman here in Tucson but am looking to travel so if you have any projects in exotic locations let me know I will bring my tool belt. I am also considering changing careers now that I have a college degree that took 20 years to get, you will have to engage me to learn more, I am not that verbose. I am a VERY out spoken man on many causes and even ended up in front of the Federal Building in Chicago, bullhorn in hand to protest the war in Iraq. I am the kind of guy that stands up for the underdog and will help anyone that needs it. One exception is people on the street with no teeth looking for crack , meth, or alcohol.

I am single again, and I am happy that for the first time in life I am becoming friends with an ex, I think this is important. I have only been out and dating men for about four years so I guess I am what you call a gaybe.

I like men who are confident, muscular,intelligent and think of others than themselves. It took me 40 years to realize I was gay and four more now to know that I am attracted to muscular dark skinned articulate, and outspoken men. There is nothing sexier than a man who has done the hard work of knowing himself. I am extremely attracted to tall and lean black men. I am looking forward to meeting and getting to know some of you men for friends and more. Feel free to send me a note and say hi, just make sure you send me a picture. I do not respond to dick shots and headless torsos they scare me.

Dave

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