Guys I'm Looking To Meet
If there is one thing I have learned over the past few years, is that I need a guy that I know I am attracted to physically within the first 5 seconds of meeting them. I've tried dating multiple guys whom I was only somewhat attracted to, and it just doesn't work, unfortunately. Luckily, this part is easy to figure out.
Since I don't keep a hot list though, and people like visual aids, here's a visual aid of sorts. Behold! My Tumblr
page. In it contains many things and men that I find to be uber sexy :). Obviously though, it's NSFW.
I like guys who are candid, talkative, are confidant and sure of themselves, and are not reserved or unsure of their more naughtier sides. I used to have little confidence in myself, and what a limiting factor it was in so many facets of life. I turned that around a few years ago. If I can do it, anyone can. I've learned the old saying "fake it till you make it" is actually very, very true.
I've realized that having fun is something that I really need. Someone who would say "tag, you're it!" and we'd proceed to chance each other down. Being goofy and open is important. Guys who are more listeners than talkers need not apply; I don't mix with taciturn men. I want someone who will push, so I can push back and not push them down. Being able to connect on a deeper level is important too. Willingness and desire to discuss weighter matters in life really fosters a close bond.
In the simplest terms, I want to meet someone who is attractive, open, confidant, and intelligent. Not too much to ask, right? I hope so :).
Also, my private photos are just photos I am keeping in storage, nothing more, and nothing naughty either.
The video below highlights my musical style. iamamiwhoami is my most beloved band. Planningtorock is a very close second.