vocoletum | Love At The Gym?


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  • Oct 27, 2016 - 5:24 AM


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    About Me

    • Member since: 02/22/10
    • Last active: More than a week ago
    • Age: 29
    • First location: Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, United States
    • Relationship Status: Single
    • Looking for: Friends, Dating or Relationship, Training Buddies
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    My Stats and Info

    • Build: Overweight
    • Height: 6' 1''
    • Weight: 313 lbs
    • Waist: 64 inches
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    • Hair color: Brown
    • Eye color: Brown
    • Ethnicity: White
    • My gym: Still looking.. :)
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    • HIV status: HIV -
    • Safer sex?: Always


    Well, I'm a college student, at the art institute, studying filmmaking. I'm trying to find myself a gym and gym buddy here in the downtown area. I'm a little shy, and really looking for a good friend to introduce me to the gym, and helping me figure out a diet and regimen.

    And, yes, there's hope for dating and love; I don't hookup, and so I find it difficult to meet anyone interested in more than that.

    I'm a gamer, I'm a fan of film, art, and music. I'm a bit of an artist, and dabble in sketching, painting, pottery, sculpting, woodworking, poetry, composing, writing, and sing when alone. I feel the body is a beautiful canvas and struggle at times with the notion I might meet one who's interested for that sole reason; so, I've never stuck it out with regular workout.

    I'm always up for cooking dinner for a guy and sitting down in front of my bigscreen for a movie, going out to fancy, or not fancy, dinner, or hiking far into 'God only knows' with a picnic, huffing and puffing the whole way, and it all worth the company shared (and hopefully a great view.)

    Yup, I know how to cook, do basic wiring, budget, and a passable amount of 'live-on-your-own' stuff.

    I'm a shutter bug, too, and really have a passion for photography.

    *Might update more later

    Guys I'm Looking To Meet

    Well, gosh... I keep hoping to meet the right man, and first and foremost. someone who is a good and loyal friend. I'm passionate, romantic, and a little too 'country' or 'old fashioned' to keep up with the fast moving guys in the city; I want the dating, the courtship, and know that in the end the relationships that last are because two old friends stuck together.

    I'm a little overweight, and self conscious at times, and I feel finding some nice guys who already lift that would teach and grow with me would be helpful. I know a lot of lifters sometimes were the small guys or the overweight kids in school, and now they want to better themselves and forge their bodies to feel confident; and I still find a lot of that sensitivity present and nuturing in the builder community for those reasons. I've always wanted to lift, but fear of how the jocks in highschool were so cruel, prevented me for years, worried I would trade outer beauty for inner.

    In essence, I suppose I'm looking for the man that finds this and gets a smile on his face and a tug in his heart, and decides to grow with me into someone who's outer appearance reflects the inner beauty they've always had.

    ...yup, I'm a little mushy; but, yay growing! :P

    I'll give my cellular number, if anyone is interested in maybe talking about a date.

    *NOTE* I am not a sex hound, I'm a cuddle bug, so I would appreciate genuine interest and maturity; another persons company is for intimacy, not a one-night anything!

    As far as age goes, well I'm 24, and feel within 5~7 years is a realistic range to relate, it's not concrete; but, if you're old enough to be my father, no, but thank you.

    I think these are fair, and up front, disclaimers.

    That's this man's opinion.


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