I'm 6'4", 187 lbs with strawberry blonde hair & grey-green eyes. I am told I look younger (booze & lighting can be your best friend) and am considered to be rather boyish (definitely not to be confused with immature), a bit eccentric (that would explain the bubble machine in my living room) and definitely a little weird (which is why I HAD to sing "At Seventeen" and depress everyone at karaoke one night and then followed it up with "Bust A Move", showing just how tragically white I really am). I have a fit body, meaning I go to the gym but I'm not buff...although I'd like to try to be...or at least finally have a butt...and if genetics won't let me have a decent booty, then I'll settle for a baby booty!

For fun, (besides the aforementioned public vocal displays of embarrassment) I enjoy kickboxing (why just try to be buff when you can be Buffy too, right?); playing pool (if only to show why geometry & physics were never my strongest subjects in school); cosmic bowling (hey, you've got glow-in-the dark & you've got disco music...and the problem is?); amusement parks and the Playdium; and my latest passion is in the world of circus arts -- trapeze lessons! (And no, I don't have to wear tights. Geez, the thought of these legs in anything stretchy & sequinned --if you're creative -- QUICK! Close your mind's eye! Now!). As hard as it is to believe after reading all this, I can be a very affectionate, romantic & passionate person when I'm drawn to someone.

I'm looking for someone with the same sense of fun, same sense of adventure, same level of energy and same endearingly weird take on the world. You MUST also be a non-smoker, have a big romantic streak and please-oh-please have some hobbies that extend beyond (yawn) going for coffee, hanging out with friends, going to movies and going out for dinner.

Physically I like guys who are fit, height/weight proportionate or slimmer and athletic (even better if you play an actual sport besides just going to the gym). I do have to admit that I have a penchant for red hair and/or large noses and/or curly hair and/or uncut equipment, but certainly I`m not restricting my attraction to those traits.

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