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  • BlakeBuddy
  • Jan 22, 2021 - 12:41 PM


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    About Me

    • Member since: 07/13/19
    • Last active: More than a week ago
    • Age: 56
    • First location: Charlotte, North Carolina, United States
    • Second location: Asheville, North Carolina, United States
    • Travel location: Asheville, North Carolina, United States
    • Relationship Status: Single
    • Looking for: Friends, Dating or Relationship, Online Chat
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    My Stats and Info

    • Build: Athletic
    • Height: 5' 9''
    • Weight: 185 lbs
    • Waist: 34 inches
    • Chest: 44 inches
    • Arms:
    • Hair color: Brown
    • Eye color: Green
    • Ethnicity: White
    • My gym: LA Fitness
    • Weight training: 3 times per week
      50 minutes per session
    • Cardio training: 4 times per week
      50 minutes per session
    • Sports I like: Cycling, Kayaking, Racquetball, Sailing, Swimming
    • Other sports I like:
    • HIV status: HIV -
    • Safer sex?: Always


    After being self-employed all my life, I elected to retire early, choosing relationships over business success. I'm fit, being routinely mistaken for a younger man. Singing in the local Collegiate Choir, volunteering as a Master Gardener, playing in the local racquetball league, and swimming a mile most mornings are all passions of mine. Now, I haven’t done the best at living authentically. Dealing with anxiety along the way has helped my maturity and discernment. I’m not ashamed. I’m a good man. It’s all part of the journey.

    The partner I seek desires and is capable of more fulfilling types of companionship seen in longer relationships. You gotta love yourself. There's no room for shame in great relationships. You can't give what you don't know. Enjoying giving and receiving sexual passion is a given, yet only a beginning. The loyalty, trust and endless possibilities of monogamy appeal to me. I'm not into the club scene, hookups, or drugs. Despite a conservative education, I relish how "open" I can be with someone I care for deeply. I enjoy being playful! ... in public, in the shower, under the sheets... If any of this resonates with you, take a chance. Message me.

    Vibrant couples share a mutual vision. My ideal soulmate would be financially independent, with some education or a good dose of common sense. He’ll be emotionally available, open to explore all aspects of intimacy together - laughing, striving, grieving, struggling, as well as the passion. He'll be comfortable communicating his needs and desires so I can satisfy him fully... playmates together :) He'll derive satisfaction in ‘giving back’ to others, knowing that will maintain our emotional and social health - shielding, sustaining, and enriching us. He’ll be quick to forgive when I fall short, and comfortable praying together. Shared chemistry helps too.

    Do you desire to be fully known? Do you desire to know another man similarly? I have a few years left of shared parenting of two pubertal sons. I'm looking for a lifetime soul friend who desires to journey together with the one who knows them best.


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