Boy4Oldermen | Into straight acting intelligent older men


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    • Member since: 11/09/18
    • Last active: This week
    • Age: 26
    • First location: Florence, Toscana, Italy
    • Second location: Milan, Lombardia, Italy
    • Relationship Status: Single
    • Looking for: Dating or Relationship
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    • Build: Athletic
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    • Hair color: Black
    • Eye color: Brown
    • Ethnicity: White
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    • Sports I like: Golf, Swimming, Tennis
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    • HIV status: HIV -
    • Safer sex?: Always


    I am an well educated, serious, discreet, masculine, loyal, ambitious, reliable and career oriented guy.
    It has been some years since I started having a particular attraction for older men, and I cannot explain the reason. Maybe because in older men I see the seriousness and the masculinity that most of guys of my age do not have.
    My age preference is from 40 to 60, but I can make exceptions on a case-by-case basis.
    I have seen some 65 years old men who seem to be 50 and some 30 years old guys who seem to be much older. It all depends on genes and on ones lifestyle.

    My ideal (gentle)man should have the following characteristics:
    -Well educated (it's not a must)
    -With a good sense of humor
    -Of an average body, but to me is more important the face than the body. I go to the gym regularly but you don't have to have muscles to get my attention: some extra kg are not a problem. I prefer stocky build rather than slim bodies
    - No piercing/ tattoos and similar stuff
    (Obviously there may be some exceptions if you are very handsome)

    If you have at least 50% of the above characteristics, then do not hesitate to text me.

    I am sapiosexual, that means sexually attracted to the intelligence of other people.
    I am looking for straight acting men only. Jumping in bed with a man who behaves like a girl makes no sense to me. I would rather have sex with a girl, at least it would be more original.
    I am particularly attracted by straight acting men in suit & tie. If you are married and have children, but you have a particular attraction for boys, I absolutely don't judge you. I perfectly understand the fact that you might have had a very conservative family (as mine) and you had no choice but to marry a woman. Your discretion and your privacy are my priority and I expect the same from you.
    I have not done the coming out. That's because I love my parents so much and I don't want to make them suffer because of me.
    But I think that when I find the right man, I will do it so that I can live happily with the man of my life.
    I am a very down-to-earth guy and can adapt to any environment. I am graduated with honors and have several study experiences in different Universities.
    I am interested in classical music, opera, cinema, arts, history, politics, travelling, gym.

    I am mostly looking for a relationship or at least for regular meetings with a man with whom I feel good. I don't like a messy life going from a flower to another flower. Quality is more important than quantity.
    But until I find the right man, I am obviously open to meet a handsome intelligent man for a one night standing (in very rare cases). To say it in other words, I'm not looking for casual sex (unless you are Alec Baldwin or Dean Charles Chapman). I am healthy and I want it to stay like that.

    More than sex I prefer to make love because sex without kisses and body contact doesn't transmit any emotions to me. I am not a machine, I am a human being and I want to give and receive love.
    I really like romance. Making love in front of a fireplace with some classical music in the background and some snow outside, is the ideal scene of my imagination.
    When it comes to sex, it must be always safe. I will never make exceptions, unless we build a solid relationship and we both show the test results to each other.
    I can do both roles: can be totally top, totally bottom or both of them. I leave the choice to you. I like a soft starting and then a bit harder...

    The few men I have met so far lived abroad, so don't let distance be an issue.
    I think that nowadays the distance should not be a problem: you can get anywhere in a short time. One hour of face to face conversation tells more than 6 months of online chatting.
    My research is global and if I casually visit your profile, don't be surprised.
    Invite me to visit your city and let's explore it together, or come and visit me in Italy.
    A man from Munich invited me to visit him about three years ago. In the beginning I was a little bit reluctant whether to go to him or not. I started thinking what if he disappears and he doesn't show up at the airport?
    But then I decided to meet him, because I talked with him on the phone several times and his voice and words seemed to reflect a serious man.
    I went there, and we met. We slept together for 5 long nights and it was one of the most amazing things that has happened in my life. Since he was married and he had children, we could not meet very often. But that man showed me that serious men exist, you just have to find them.
    At that time I was younger and I was living with my parents, so I could not host anyone. That was the reason why I had to travel to meet a man who seemed to be compatible with me.
    Now I am living alone and I hope that you can travel to me if you can. I solemnly promise that I will not disappear. I will wait for you at the airport, and we will go to my apartment and enjoy time together with a lot of passionate moments.
    I am in the beginning of my career, therefore my financial resources are limited. I hope you will take the step to travel to me, or I can travel to you if you can host me.

    In any case meeting me does not mean that we should necessarily jump in bed together. Most probably we will, but only if there is chemistry. We can meet for coffee or dinner and then decide whether to go further.

    The fact I am into mature men doesn't mean that I am looking for rewards so please avoid offering me money. My dignity is priceless.
    I can relocate for the right man, but only if I have the opportunity to grow professionally. I am very ambitious and I want to build my own career.

    I am not impossible, I am just selective. If you think I am too complicated, then maybe you prefer someone who jumps in bed with everyone. I am not the perfect boy, but I am not an ordinary one neither.

    Sexually talking, the thing I appreciate most in a man is his face so I hope that you are willing to send a face pic or to make a video call so that we can see each other's face.

    If you write to me please present your self by answering to these questions:
    1. Are you married (or have you ever been married)?
    2. Do you have children?
    3. Do people around you know that you like men?
    4. What do you do in your life?
    If you write to me, please take at least two minutes to introduce yourself. No need to tell me your name, it's the last thing that interests me. But what do you do in life, what are you looking for in particular etc.


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