Use of hookup partner's semen as lubricant - unsafe from HIV infection?

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    Jul 05, 2010 9:26 PM GMT
    I don't get it. If you hookup with someone you'll end up watching Forest Gump together? You'll have a craving for shrimp? You'll recite cliched phrases that your momma taught you?
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    Jul 05, 2010 9:30 PM GMT
    It's fine if you use a doily.

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    Jul 05, 2010 9:35 PM GMT
    Yikes! When I read the OPs thread headline my jaw dropped to the floor. I said out loud "Good Christ Almighty!!!??? and I dont believe in god. The clarification of using it as lube to jack with doesn't make the situation any safer. Always remember that guys and particularly hooks can be lying sacks of shit and not be honest and up front about anything and particularly being poz or having HPV or herpes. Why does everyone's concern w/an STD begin and end w/HIV too? Wouldn't you want to continue to be free of all infectious cooties? Got caught up in the moment I guess. Yup, so old porn did have guys using anothers cum to lube with and jack or fuck.

    I am unaware that airing out jizz deactivated the virus and will have to do some research on that. Best advice I have ever heard came from a Multnomah Co. public health lecturer whos mantra was "If it's wet (puddle of cum, pee, poo, pre cum, blood, etc.) and not yours leave it alone."
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    Jul 05, 2010 10:41 PM GMT
    jos367 saidHIV is deactivated readily when exposed to air. Although it comes with mild risk, no reported HIV infections have occured due to exposure to spilled bodily fluids.


    Only when it dries. While it is wet, most of the virus would be "inside" the liquid and therefore not exposed to air. In any case, the virus can still be cultured for 2 weeks from dried blood.

    When they talk about "spilled bodily fluids", they mean accidental exposure on normal skin. No gay guy I know is going to worry if the guy cums on your chest, but rubbing it into the mucosa of the glans is quite a different story! icon_eek.gif

    Having said this, the risk, while real, is probably quite low, so don't panic.
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    Jul 06, 2010 1:30 AM GMT
    When I was diagnosed Hiv positive my case worker had said there were even instances where people became Hiv Positive after getting tattoos.

    It seems someone that was positive got a tattoo and then the person following them got one and the tattoo parlor used the same ink on the two different subjects so it stayed "active" or whatever in the ink.

    I wouldn't take any chances with this type of thing...its better to be "safe" than sorry man. Take it from someone who knows.
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    Jul 06, 2010 1:45 AM GMT
    UFJocknerd saidHas to be a joke.

    No, it's fine. Blood and semen both make awesome lube.


    Touche,
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    Jul 06, 2010 3:52 PM GMT
    UFJocknerd saidHas to be a joke.

    No, it's fine. Blood and semen both make awesome lube.


    IN case this thread is read by any idiots, this was sarcastic, that is to say: IT IS NOT TRUE.

    Always use a condom.
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    Jul 06, 2010 3:57 PM GMT
    The issue with the tattoo is blood transmission and not the ink as a medium.

    It should not be happening that tattoo parlors are re-using needles. However, I guess this still does go on.


    redbull saidWhen I was diagnosed Hiv positive my case worker had said there were even instances where people became Hiv Positive after getting tattoos.

    It seems someone that was positive got a tattoo and then the person following them got one and the tattoo parlor used the same ink on the two different subjects so it stayed "active" or whatever in the ink.

    I wouldn't take any chances with this type of thing...its better to be "safe" than sorry man. Take it from someone who knows.
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    Jul 06, 2010 4:09 PM GMT
    I guess this is a fair question, but if you have to ask you know the answer, and are just looking for validation. Go ahead and hop on... you heading that way anyway.
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    Jul 06, 2010 4:13 PM GMT
    My my, no wonder people associate gay = bitchy.

    There are no stupid questions. Some of the nasty responses are just over the line.
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    Jul 06, 2010 4:14 PM GMT
    Some of you are so f...in ridiculous. I am sure he asked because he needed to know. Cant stand self righteous , self absorbed pricks, Stupid homo is the new form of bashing...icon_razz.gif...............Ok let me relax...

    Its unsafe my friend.
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    Jul 06, 2010 4:17 PM GMT
    viveutvivas saidMy my, no wonder people associate gay = bitchy.

    There are no stupid questions. Some of the nasty responses are just over the line.



    Right with you on that one!
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    Jul 06, 2010 4:30 PM GMT
    redbull saidWhen I was diagnosed Hiv positive my case worker had said there were even instances where people became Hiv Positive after getting tattoos.

    It seems someone that was positive got a tattoo and then the person following them got one and the tattoo parlor used the same ink on the two different subjects so it stayed "active" or whatever in the ink.

    I wouldn't take any chances with this type of thing...its better to be "safe" than sorry man. Take it from someone who knows.


    i'd NEVER use a tattoo shop that reuses needles! icon_mad.gif
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    Jul 06, 2010 7:16 PM GMT
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    viveutvivas saidMy my, no wonder people associate gay = bitchy.

    There are no stupid questions. Some of the nasty responses are just over the line.



    Right with you on that one!


    There is no room with this kind of stuff for any ambiguity. It´s like saying "I´m a terrorist and have a bomb" when walking into the USA. you have to take it seriously.
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    Jul 06, 2010 7:20 PM GMT
    lol, I dont know, I wouldnt do it... but its known to happen.

    I'm wondering if the OP means as lube to jerk off with... or as lube to insertive anal sex...??
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    If its the first, its probably not "safe".... but doesnt HIV die when exposed to air after a few seconds / with the temperature change of being outside the body?
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    Jul 06, 2010 7:21 PM GMT
    UFJocknerd saidHas to be a joke.

    No, it's fine. Blood and semen both make awesome lube.


    You forgot tears. They make the BEST lube.
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    Jul 06, 2010 7:27 PM GMT
    He would have to have great stamina for this to work if it's penetrative... Unless he stores it for later use...............................icon_neutral.gif
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    Jul 06, 2010 8:46 PM GMT
    Whatever happened to the good ole spit-n-shove?
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    Jul 06, 2010 9:02 PM GMT
    viveutvivas saidMy my, no wonder people associate gay = bitchy.

    There are no stupid questions. Some of the nasty responses are just over the line.
    Especially when it comes to sex. If you are turned on or are just really into a guy, hard and fast rules can get blurry. Obviously the transmission rate for this specific activity is low enough that it is not included in the vector categories I've seen.
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    Jul 06, 2010 9:21 PM GMT
    The best lube is Icy Hot and tabasco sauce!

    You'll cum in seconds!
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    Jul 06, 2010 10:19 PM GMT
    kalvinosaurus saidThe best lube is Icy Hot and tabasco sauce!

    You'll cum in seconds!
    I <3 U!!! icon_lol.gif
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    Jul 07, 2010 11:55 PM GMT
    Wait I read this differently than everyone so far.


    I thought the OP meant he was going to use his use his partner's semen to lube up his condom-wrapped dick and then insert that into his partner's bum. In that case I think it should be pretty safe since the bottom guy can't get infected by his own sperm and the top guy is protected by the condom.
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    Jul 08, 2010 12:05 AM GMT
    JimJim saidWait I read this differently than everyone so far.


    I thought the OP meant he was going to use his use his partner's semen to lube up his condom-wrapped dick and then insert that into his partner's bum. In that case I think it should be pretty safe since the bottom guy can't get infected by his own sperm and the top guy is protected by the condom.
    the bf and I tried this method in the past. jizz makes for a lousy lube! after 4 or 5 strokes it's gone! i tore the condom on the 6th or 7th stroke.icon_sad.gif

    yet another "porn star moment" tht doesn't work out well in "the real world".icon_rolleyes.gif

    hard (no pun intended) to beat a good quality silicone lube.icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 09, 2010 1:59 AM GMT
    viveutvivas said
    Only when it dries


    At which time it is beyond useless as lube.

    As others have suggested, jizz aint so great as lube even when fresh.
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    Aug 10, 2010 10:49 PM GMT
    chuckystud saidOFMG. What will some queers think of next?

    What happened to just plain old common sense?

    It's semen. It's a carrier. Of course it's dangerous, and, as well, not very effective.

    Sounds like some idiot bare backing.

    Where do these questions come from? The folks in The Short Bus?


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