Apr 24, 2011 12:39 PM GMT
I think it's been said in the previous responses, but yeah...just relax. Enjoy yourself, top or bottom. If you think you're going to have ED, then you can stress yourself out enough to cause it.
Also, it's not uncommon for a lot of sexual stimulation in your anus to divert your sexual response there. This doesn't prevent your erections, just means your focus is elsewhere. When I bottom, I almost always go soft during the first part of it and have to work up an erection during the event.
And honestly, if you're doing sex right, you can both go through multiple erections during the whole event...it's not all about getting hard and getting off, there's pleasure to be had in the ebb and flow, right?
Also, it's not uncommon for a lot of sexual stimulation in your anus to divert your sexual response there. This doesn't prevent your erections, just means your focus is elsewhere. When I bottom, I almost always go soft during the first part of it and have to work up an erection during the event.
And honestly, if you're doing sex right, you can both go through multiple erections during the whole event...it's not all about getting hard and getting off, there's pleasure to be had in the ebb and flow, right?