Jul 12, 2010 2:05 PM GMT
Hey Guys,
I really need some feedback because I'm really stressing out right now. So for the past 10 yrs my entire gay sexual experience has been as a top. I love being a top and have only tried bottoming twice and I hated it. I have had sex with a handful of guys and I've never had any problems, I'm hard the whole time, can cum everytime, and really enjoy sex. Well I recently got out of a 3 yr relationship where I was top he was bottom, and started to see someone new. This new guy is a top. So we both agreed we would have to flip fuck because we both wanted to top. And he's been telling me just to relax and that I will enjoy it. So it finally came time to be intimate with one another and I go to top him and I can't stay hard enough to penerate. My dick is like a noodle! This has never happened to me! Especially when I'm about to have have sex. So then I let him top me because I just can't get it up. I'm stressing the whole time about how this is the first time I'm sleeping with this guy and I look like I have ED! I eventually was able to cum several times while he topped me. But I was never able to get hard enough to top him. Has this ever happened to anyone before? Why can I all of sudden not stay hard? I never let anyone play with my ass before cuz I don't really like it, but since I knew I was going to have to bottom I did "clean out" and allowed him to do so. Do you think that that may have caused this? I bottomed for this guy because I really like him and want to continue to sleep with him but I really prefer to top and I dont' want to be exclusively a bottom. Whenever we are apart I'm constantly thinking about him and walk around with a rock hard dick all day. Why can't I keep it hard when he's actually with me in bed? This is really freak'in me out. Please tell me what's going on!
I really need some feedback because I'm really stressing out right now. So for the past 10 yrs my entire gay sexual experience has been as a top. I love being a top and have only tried bottoming twice and I hated it. I have had sex with a handful of guys and I've never had any problems, I'm hard the whole time, can cum everytime, and really enjoy sex. Well I recently got out of a 3 yr relationship where I was top he was bottom, and started to see someone new. This new guy is a top. So we both agreed we would have to flip fuck because we both wanted to top. And he's been telling me just to relax and that I will enjoy it. So it finally came time to be intimate with one another and I go to top him and I can't stay hard enough to penerate. My dick is like a noodle! This has never happened to me! Especially when I'm about to have have sex. So then I let him top me because I just can't get it up. I'm stressing the whole time about how this is the first time I'm sleeping with this guy and I look like I have ED! I eventually was able to cum several times while he topped me. But I was never able to get hard enough to top him. Has this ever happened to anyone before? Why can I all of sudden not stay hard? I never let anyone play with my ass before cuz I don't really like it, but since I knew I was going to have to bottom I did "clean out" and allowed him to do so. Do you think that that may have caused this? I bottomed for this guy because I really like him and want to continue to sleep with him but I really prefer to top and I dont' want to be exclusively a bottom. Whenever we are apart I'm constantly thinking about him and walk around with a rock hard dick all day. Why can't I keep it hard when he's actually with me in bed? This is really freak'in me out. Please tell me what's going on!