Feb 12, 2008 10:23 PM GMT
I have never suffered from performance anxiety when it came to sex, from day one I took to it like a duck to water.
There was one time though where I did feel a bit apprehensive. Back in August 1991 I met a 19-year old guy from Quebec City at Woody's in Toronto. We went back to my apartment and started fooling around. During the foreplay I found out that he was a virgin. I thought to myself, "holy shit this guy is going to remember this for the rest of his life!" I frankly found it a bit intimidating (just a bit mind you).
I made sure I didn't rush things or pressure him into to doing something that he was not comfortable with. The sex was pretty good overall despite the difference in experience.
Has anyone else on RealJock been someone else's "first", and did you have similar feelings?
There was one time though where I did feel a bit apprehensive. Back in August 1991 I met a 19-year old guy from Quebec City at Woody's in Toronto. We went back to my apartment and started fooling around. During the foreplay I found out that he was a virgin. I thought to myself, "holy shit this guy is going to remember this for the rest of his life!" I frankly found it a bit intimidating (just a bit mind you).
I made sure I didn't rush things or pressure him into to doing something that he was not comfortable with. The sex was pretty good overall despite the difference in experience.
Has anyone else on RealJock been someone else's "first", and did you have similar feelings?