I have had good luck on Manhunt in the past. Have been in relationship for the past year, so not really into the hook-up scene any more. also had some luck on Squirt.org
found that those advertising on such sites are not always honest about weight, appearance, etc. when they show up on your doorstep, not exactly what you had expected. i met my boyfriend at a gay party..we both knew automatically what we were getting, as far as appearance goes. It was added bonus that we also experienced instant chemistry and shared interests on many levels.