Oct 11, 2010 5:42 PM GMT
Thanks! I'm pretty sure I set my profile to private on day one as I got a bit scared. I mean to be honest, if someone DID 'accidentally' find me on here, I would just learn not to care - but I certainly don't want it to be majorly obvious in any way. And it's nothing to do with being gay: if I was straight I would be equally embarrassed to have my friends know what sort of porn I watch or how many times I jerk off a day. Embarrassment is not shame...
The reason why I post the things I do on here (no matter how crude) is because I never had that chance when I was younger, I never had and still do not have any 'gay friends' so RJ in a way provides an outlet for me to express personal interests that I have stubbornly hidden in the past. I like sex, I'm not going to lie, and I feel that I should have the right to express that without being judged by any persons.
This is not a stab at you in any way btw!
I agree totally with you and it's exactly the same for me, I like to be able to talk openly with other gay guys on here as I don't do that in my real life, but I like the level of anonymity it gives. I'm verified but set so only logged in members can see me. I think that's enough.
By the way, how on earth can you fake being verified??