Oct 18, 2010 1:16 AM GMT
So I feel like (at least in my area), most of the gay men I meet are really effeminate or socially awkward.
I am really chill, laid back and can be social with other people. Lately, I feel like that I want to make new friends because I realized that I really don't have many. I usually hang out with the same people.
As of right now, I think I'm not going to focus on using these gay dating/personals sites to meet other guys. (I've had a low success rate)
Where are some places you have met average masculine men that you have developed either long term friendships or relationships with? I am struggling here. I'm not out to everyone (that may be the problem- only to close friends) and I don't want to just go to gay bars/clubs to meet guys. I go to the mall, my school, gym, and to happy hours but I don't meet many people.
Then there is that thing- you think the guy is cool but he may be str8 or homophobic What are some gestures or signs that you or other guys make make towards you to generate interest?
Please, share you stories or experiences. Any suggestions or specific places you've met some of your best friends would be great.