Show me you're Gay

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  Oct 25, 2010 5:05 PM GMT

  One valid topic here is not knowing when some hot guy is really gay, and relying on the so called Gaydar system can be problematic.
  
  the so called straight acting gays are very hard to pick out, and I realized that. I do want other gay men to know I'm on the team and ready to play....so how do you tell without waving a 3x5 rainbow flag?
  
  I just bought a very tasteful silver ring embedded with rainbow colored stones that I now wear, if i can remember, when I go out. I also have a small choker necklace with the two entwined male symbols and a pinky ring of the same. One enameled rainbow ring finishes off when I want to do some work and am not worried about a few scratches. So i have some very subtle signs that I can wear to suit any occasion, without having to be too obvious.
  
  What about you guys, any other ways you send out 'gay waves'? .....Keith

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  Oct 25, 2010 11:03 PM GMT

  I'm mastered the art of the secret gay handshake.

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  Oct 25, 2010 11:16 PM GMT

  Bunjamon saidI'm mastered the art of the secret gay handshake.

  
  mmmm.... I hope your talking of the hand job handshake and not that limp wristed dead fish handshake

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  lilTanker said

  Bunjamon saidI'm mastered the art of the secret gay handshake.

  
  mmmm.... I hope your talking of the hand job handshake and not that limp wristed dead fish handshake

  
  Both totally show you're homo.
  
  
  Silly goose.
  lmfao.

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  Oct 25, 2010 11:21 PM GMT

  ShinyToyTrev said

  lilTanker said

  Bunjamon saidI'm mastered the art of the secret gay handshake.

  
  mmmm.... I hope your talking of the hand job handshake and not that limp wristed dead fish handshake

  
  Both totally show you're homo.
  
  
  Silly goose.
  lmfao.

  
  
  or just drop your pants, if they look, theyre gay.

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  Oct 25, 2010 11:24 PM GMT

  lol i sometimes wear a tshirt one size to small, or a icomment if i see a hot guy in public. plus i bring stright friends with me to pride fest or to the bar and they have a blast lol lol.

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  Oct 25, 2010 11:41 PM GMT

  sublstyley said

  ShinyToyTrev said

  lilTanker said

  Bunjamon saidI'm mastered the art of the secret gay handshake.

  
  mmmm.... I hope your talking of the hand job handshake and not that limp wristed dead fish handshake

  
  Both totally show you're homo.
  
  
  Silly goose.
  lmfao.

  
  
  or just drop your pants, if they look, theyre gay.

  
  Which you've been doing....
  You gay bro?

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  Oct 25, 2010 11:48 PM GMT

  A branch of psych called behavioral science tends to tells me all kind of things.

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  Oct 25, 2010 11:50 PM GMT

  I don't. I prefer to travel incognito.

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  Oct 25, 2010 11:55 PM GMT

  If I'm going to a straight party/bar but I want to advertise, I usually where a shirt that says 'gay? fine by me.' on it. They gave them out every year on campus, so I now have three in different colors, lol. On campus everyone has these shirts, straight or gay, but off campus I think it's a pretty good indicator.

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  Oct 26, 2010 12:17 AM GMT

  I... um, I'm not sure a necklace with a double man sign really fits my definition of "subtle".
  Of course, subtlety may be overrated, so more power to you.
  As for me... um, I don't think I either know of a good way to detect or display. Every now and then I wonder about person X. Oft times I'm wrong though, or at least it's later clear they're not out.

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  Oct 26, 2010 1:02 AM GMT

  Its all in the.................. WINK!
  
  LMAO

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  Oct 26, 2010 1:03 AM GMT

  You're good with all the jewelry hints. I miss gay and bi guys all the time, then they follow me home. Those jewelry thing, I'd be following you, if you are hot persian guy. Maybe that's the other thing to talk about. How hot are you really?

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  Oct 26, 2010 1:05 AM GMT

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  Someone tell me that's not Vanna White.....

  
  Thats not Vanna White. Vanna White does not age due to the fact she is a soul sucking vampire.

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  ShinyToyTrev said

  sublstyley said

  ShinyToyTrev said

  lilTanker said

  Bunjamon saidI'm mastered the art of the secret gay handshake.

  
  mmmm.... I hope your talking of the hand job handshake and not that limp wristed dead fish handshake

  
  Both totally show you're homo.
  
  
  Silly goose.
  lmfao.

  
  
  or just drop your pants, if they look, theyre gay.

  
  Which you've been doing....
  You gay bro?

  
  
  
  of course, if i see a hot guy in the supermarket, i just let the pant drops and ask "you lika what you see eh?", thats no typo. exactly like that.

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  Oct 26, 2010 1:13 AM GMT

  "very tasteful" .... well, that should be enough to let everybody know ... one wouldnt need jewelry after that ...

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  TheGuyNextDoor said

  Timberoo said

  
  Someone tell me that's not Vanna White.....

  
  
  no, that's me in drag

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  barriehomeboy saidYou're good with all the jewelry hints. I miss gay and bi guys all the time, then they follow me home. Those jewelry thing, I'd be following you, if you are hot persian guy. Maybe that's the other thing to talk about. How hot are you really?

  
  
  obviously not that hot that guys are following me home. If the jewellery thing doesn't work I'm off to the ad agency,,,perhaps a sandwich board. To the poster that didn't think a necklace was subtle, it's not supposed to be to subtle to a gay guy, and 99% of straights have no idea what it is, it's just small, not the size of a stop sign.
  
  I showed my rainbow ring to my new girlfriend/exwife. She thought it was beautiful but confirmed that the av. straight would have no idea it was a pride ring.
  
  Keith

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  Oct 26, 2010 1:46 AM GMT

  vetteset said[...] not knowing when some hot guy is really gay, and relying on the so called Gaydar system can be problematic.
  the so called straight acting gays are very hard to pick out, and I realized that. I do want other gay men to know I'm on the team and ready to play....so how do you tell without waving a 3x5 rainbow flag?
  [...] So i have some very subtle signs that I can wear to suit any occasion, without having to be too obvious.
  What about you guys, any other ways you send out 'gay waves'? .....Keith

  
  
  I think that specifically making the effort to send out gay vibes isn't necessary, at least not in the city that I live in. A horny guy's eyes are hard-wired and initiate the process for him. The important thing is to show your interest for someone you think is hott and are interested in forming some kind of contact with (including social contact of course). From my experience If I'm attracted to someone I'll look at him, size him up visually (without being vulgar), seem friendly but not overly so, so that he sees that I have at least some interest. If he's not interested (gay or straight) either he won't show any interest, or will show clear disinterest, and case closed. (It takes two for a friendship and no point pursuing it otherwise.) Sometimes in the street, subway, and stores I come across a hott guy and either he responds favorably to my glances or he himself initiates. When guys are out, open, and interested (at least initially) that often leads to mutual turning around for another look, nice genuine smiles, simple conversations, or changing seats on a train/ getting off at an unplanned station. It's really the same at a gay bar, some people show an interest, some don't. I've come to the conclusion that it's best that way- one should never be wasting time with the wrong person.

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  sublstyley said

  ShinyToyTrev said

  sublstyley said

  ShinyToyTrev said

  lilTanker said

  Bunjamon saidI'm mastered the art of the secret gay handshake.

  
  mmmm.... I hope your talking of the hand job handshake and not that limp wristed dead fish handshake

  
  Both totally show you're homo.
  
  
  Silly goose.
  lmfao.

  
  
  or just drop your pants, if they look, theyre gay.

  
  Which you've been doing....
  You gay bro?

  
  
  
  of course, if i see a hot guy in the supermarket, i just let the pant drops and ask "you lika what you see eh?", thats no typo. exactly like that.

  
  We're meant to be.

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  My coworkers tell all the newbies I'm gay before I ever get a chance to speak up. Then they defend my honor and bash/fire the newb if he or she has a problem with it. It's happened a few times. They were also quick to let me know that our latest newb is also gay. The ratio of gay/straight at work is quickly becoming 50/50...kinda cool actually.

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