Oct 30, 2010 3:16 PM GMT
So a gay friend and I were chatting and something came up about "selfish gay men". "Gay men are much more self absorbed than straight people", he said.
There are many self absorbed gays, but I have straight friends who are almost as bad. I have a "friend" from college that used to tell anybody who would listen (literally) her whole life story, her ailments, her issues, her boyfriends and would rarely ask about anything in my life. I remember her calling me when I was 24 when my mother had passed away asking me "I heard your mother passed away, what happened". My response was, "its been going on for a year, you never asked"
She was tossed "as a friend" a long time ago.
Nothing turns me off quicker than somebody who dominates every conversation with discussions about them. They don't listen to you and
seem only mildly connected with who you are.
I'm curious about anybody who had ended relationships (whether it be friendships or actual relationships) because the other party was a selfish
SOB. What made you pull the plug?
There are many self absorbed gays, but I have straight friends who are almost as bad. I have a "friend" from college that used to tell anybody who would listen (literally) her whole life story, her ailments, her issues, her boyfriends and would rarely ask about anything in my life. I remember her calling me when I was 24 when my mother had passed away asking me "I heard your mother passed away, what happened". My response was, "its been going on for a year, you never asked"
She was tossed "as a friend" a long time ago.
Nothing turns me off quicker than somebody who dominates every conversation with discussions about them. They don't listen to you and
seem only mildly connected with who you are.
I'm curious about anybody who had ended relationships (whether it be friendships or actual relationships) because the other party was a selfish
SOB. What made you pull the plug?
