Nov 05, 2010 2:02 PM GMT
let me hear your thoughts

NickFit saidTotally depends on the situation. I personally think that I could forgive a minor indiscretion but probably not a full-blown affair. But unless it happens to you I don't think you really know.
I had a very on-off relationship with my last bf, and we had argued on the phone and I said I wanted some time alone for a few days, when we re-established contact he revealed he'd kissed another guy. I forgave that, because I knew where it came from and due to the situation (i.e. we were 'on a break' :roll
If my current bf cheated on me, I would be really angry and disappointed, but have so much invested in the relationship I don't think I could just walk away without a fight.
RRButch saidit's the same notion that if love is strong and powerful to forgive, shouldn't it also be strong and powerful for someone to not cheat on their partners?
amar_m saidHonesty is mre important... so I wouldnt make a big deal about cheating.... I would make a big deal out of lying about it!
ksig121 saidI don't get open relationships... If you still want to play around, don't commit. It's that simple.
As far as cheating goes, I agree with several posters here. Once the trust is lost, there's no recovering. While I could forgive the indiscretion, I could never forget it. Without trust, there can be no relationship.
AvadaKedavra saidZero. Don't think I can trust a cheater.
Best advice ever:
There's an old saying in Tennessee, I know it's in Texas, probably in Tennessee, that says, fool me once, shame on, shame on you. Fool me, You can't get fooled again.
meninlove saidksig121 saidI don't get open relationships... If you still want to play around, don't commit. It's that simple.
As far as cheating goes, I agree with several posters here. Once the trust is lost, there's no recovering. While I could forgive the indiscretion, I could never forget it. Without trust, there can be no relationship.
ksig21, Open relationships are toxic to Bill and I . We suffered in them.
BUT I wouldn't dream of criticizing what works for others. It's their love and happiness, not mine! I have no right, any more than they have a right to slap me for mine.
-Doug