Nov 22, 2010 3:21 AM GMT
I don't know why but i really like the idea of a protective guy because it shows he cares. How protective would you be of your boyfriend? Would you fight for him?
How protective would you be of your boyfriend?
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Nov 22, 2010 3:23 AM GMTProtective sounds like an avenue for jealousy and possessiveness. That's not to say I think it's implied most would fight for their loved ones if they were in some sort of danger. -
Nov 22, 2010 3:23 AM GMTHotCollegeDude saidWould you fight for him?
Yes, and have. -
Nov 22, 2010 3:33 AM GMT5ebastian saidwhy do u keep deleting your posts that you start? are you really THAT afraid someone is gonna find out you're gay?
No, I notice nobody is really posting, and people stop posting after like the fourth post. I figured there no sense in keeing it up then because maybe it's a boring topic -
Nov 22, 2010 3:36 AM GMTpaulflexes said
HotCollegeDude saidWould you fight for him?
Yes, and have.
I nearly broke a guy's arm in a bar because he wouldn't leave my boyfriend alone.
The guy kept bothering my bf, and at a certain point my patience ran out when my boyfriend got creeped out. When the guy grabbed for my boyfriend one too many times, I caught the guy's hand in mid-air, turned his wrist and arm behind his back, guided him to his knees, then politely (but firmly) asked him if he wanted me to break his arm. Upon answering "Please no, sir" correctly, I pushed him away and to the floor with my boot, and directed him to stay 12 feet away from us no matter were we chose to go in the bar. He scurried away. My bf had a sweet "my hero" kind of look on his face which seemed that much sweeter considering that he was only wearing a black contractor bag, boots, a chain around his waist, and a collar and leash around his throat.
The scum was not only messing with my bf, he was messing with my property.
So yes, I would fight for him. I'm fiercely loyal that way. I'm kind of that way with my family and friends as well too. -
Nov 22, 2010 3:37 AM GMTHotCollegeDude said
5ebastian saidwhy do u keep deleting your posts that you start? are you really THAT afraid someone is gonna find out you're gay?
No, I notice nobody is really posting, and people stop posting after like the fourth post. I figured there no sense in keeing it up then because maybe it's a boring topic
That's substantially annoying forum behavior, however, and it really doesn't put you in a light that'll make RJ'ers want to post at all in your threads. You may start a thread but as soon as others input their contributions it really isn't yours anymore. -
Nov 22, 2010 4:10 AM GMTTo get back on topic, I protect if I have a bf who keeps telling a guy "I have a bf" and if the guy keeps stepping up to him, I will step up in between them and say to the guy "Is there something wrong with your ear or do you not understand English? No and No? Get your ass away on yourself or I will get you away. Do you understand that?". I have done that before. -
Nov 22, 2010 4:16 AM GMTIm quite a jealous person; one wrong look from another guy, there WILL be a Bitch Fight! -
Nov 22, 2010 4:20 AM GMTIf i see a kid who wont stop leaving my boyfriend alone then yeah, I'd say something., if the person really wants to, I'll fight. But don't expect just punches. I'm a gymnast and dancer, my strength is in my legs lol.
and I like guys being protective but not like... crazily so. -
Nov 22, 2010 4:22 AM GMTOh man, i have to keep the queens aways from him all the time....He's also a bully when guys try to talk to me as well... I like that feeling....
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Nov 22, 2010 4:25 AM GMTI think I am extremely protective when it comes to boyfriends. Yes, I would fight to protect him. -
Nov 22, 2010 4:45 AM GMTI dare anyone try to do anything to my guy! I am very protective of him. I'm nice, very nice, but I can bring out the worst side in me when ti come to protecting those whom I'm love. -
Nov 22, 2010 4:46 AM GMTAm I? Is he? Both yeses. How protective? As much as each of us requires without interfering with each of our abilities to defend ourselves.
(serious subject)
-Doug -
Nov 22, 2010 4:49 AM GMTI can't picture myself with a guy that would end up in situations that would require the need to fight, but I would sure be on his side and defend him to whatever extent necessary; physical fighting as the last resort if extremely necessary/provoked in defense. Too much protectiveness becomes too much jealousy. Can you let me talk to my friend please?
BUT there are countless other ways for a guy to show he cares than knocking a guys tooth out for you X_xMuchMoreThanMuscle saidIf my partner were in a situation where he was threatened and could not defend himself from I would intercede.
But in the past when I have shown protective tendencies toward another person they misconstrue it as my way of believing that I do not see (the person I am protecting) him as a person capable of taking care of himself.
Ooo that's a toughy. You could be in trouble no matter which way you go -
Nov 22, 2010 5:00 AM GMTVery. And hell yes. -
Nov 22, 2010 5:01 AM GMTi wouldnt be like checking his texts and stuff but if someone even pushed him or something id be on that shit like a linebacker in fball
thats bout it -
Nov 22, 2010 5:03 AM GMTid be so like i am about all my family and friends... simple things like dont let em drive drunk... help them when they are in need etc -
Nov 22, 2010 5:05 AM GMTI'd be protective of my bf that's for sure
any fucking trick even looks at him the wrong way I'm ready to beat some ass -
Nov 22, 2010 5:18 AM GMTMy only advice is...If you have a good thing...don't talk about it... -
Nov 22, 2010 5:47 AM GMTGAMRican said...
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So yes, I would fight for him. I'm fiercely loyal that way. I'm kind of that way with my family and friends as well too. -
Nov 22, 2010 5:50 AM GMTpaulflexes said
GAMRican said...
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So yes, I would fight for him. I'm fiercely loyal that way. I'm kind of that way with my family and friends as well too.
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Nov 22, 2010 5:56 AM GMTI'm not very protective. I say, do whatever you want, just don't get any diseases. If there's someone going for hubby, I presume he's not interested and I politely intervene. Hubby, on the other hand, is extremely protective and strictly monogamous. It's kinda cute but some of the rules seem arbitrary at best. -
Nov 22, 2010 7:35 AM GMTI'm protective, but more in the sense that I find it disrespectful to me when people keep hitting on someone I'm with when they know I'm with him. That just pisses me off.
I'd stand up for my guy but I wouldn't be overprotective. There is a fine line between standing by your man/your relationship and being controlling or overzealous. -
Nov 22, 2010 8:47 AM GMTI would be, but I would need to learn that in order to maintain a relationship I would need to give him space and let him live his own life sometimes just like I would want him to do the same for me. Hopefully the guy I'd be with would be one that can deal with matters in a way that's reassuring to me so that I wouldn't feel the need to be protective (even though by instinct I would be). And I hope to God he would be nothing but faithful to me. -
Nov 22, 2010 9:25 AM GMTDepends if he's pissed me off lately.
