A few thought questions for you married guys (either MM or MW), partnered / coupled guys:

Have you ever thought about (or visualized) some other guy when having sex with your partner?

If so, do you think that this is:

(a) a bad thing - you feel guilty about it when it happens

(b) doesn't matter - what he doesn't know won't bother him

(c) he knows and doesn't care because he's got you right now

(d) he knows and is bothered by it

(e) our relationship is on very rocky ground because of it


Would you be bothered about it "the shoe was on the other foot"?