Nov 27, 2010 12:27 AM GMT

Isn't it more important to establish yourself first ( a job, a home, etc...) and then find someone to share it all with

MuchMoreThanMuscle saidI think most guys who are young know that they have to allow themselves their whore moments (which lasts throughout their twenties) and to be able to enjoy themselves and then get it out of their systems.
mcwclewis saidA few possibilities.
Because their hetero peers are often well into dating and it sucks always being the third wheel
Because being gay isn't easy and it's nice to have someone to help you through
Because nearly everyone wants to share their life with someone special.
Because it sucks being alone.
Personally I'm head over heels in love with someone who is only "questioning" his sexuality and it's been really difficult. I'd prefer if he would just make up his mind, but meeting someone else to pull me away from this crappy situation would be wonderful.
mcwclewis saidBecause their hetero peers are often well into dating and it sucks always being the third wheel
malefeet said
Isn't it more important to establish yourself first ( a job, a home, etc...) and then find someone to share it all with
MuchMoreThanMuscle saidI think most guys who are young know that they have to allow themselves their whore moments (which lasts throughout their twenties) and to be able to enjoy themselves and then get it out of their systems.
malefeet said
Isn't it more important to establish yourself first ( a job, a home, etc...) and then find someone to share it all with
KardioKing saidbecause I want someone to dutch oven, kick out of the bed, wake them up with a pillow smack to the head.... ya know romantic stuff.
KardioKing saidbecause I want someone to dutch oven, kick out of the bed, wake them up with a pillow smack to the head.... ya know romantic stuff.
HotCollegeDude said I almost feel like having someone like that will help me in the process of growing up and stuff because I have no confidence and I think if I had someone that believes in me and loves me for who I am it will make me feel much better about myself
TexDef07 saidHotCollegeDude said I almost feel like having someone like that will help me in the process of growing up and stuff because I have no confidence and I think if I had someone that believes in me and loves me for who I am it will make me feel much better about myself
You've got this totally backwards. Someone won't commit to you until you've done your growing up, learned through experience to have confidence and believe in yourself. Confidence and self-worth are things you won't have bestowed on you by the magical arrival of some unearned relationship. You have to find these things within yourself. Once you've done that, you will surely find someone to love you for who you are.
malefeet said
Isn't it more important to establish yourself first ( a job, a home, etc...) and then find someone to share it all with
malefeet said
Isn't it more important to establish yourself first ( a job, a home, etc...) and then find someone to share it all with