For old time's sake.

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  Dec 02, 2010 1:55 AM GMT

  It's been 9 months. I haven't seen him or heard from him once.
  I sometimes wonder if he thinks about me, even though I know he doesn't.
  I thought I was over him, but I guess I'm not.
  I sometimes think I might be hooked on the feeling of being heartbroken.
  I know there's no point in it. What's done is done. But I find myself wallowing in the memories of him... just one more time.
  For old time's sake.
  
  Do you ever find yourself in this kind of position?

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  Dec 02, 2010 5:28 AM GMT

  If you're grieving a major loss it usually takes more than nine months.

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  Dec 02, 2010 5:42 AM GMT

  Yep, I sure did. Over 16 years of being single and not, then single, then not, I'd say at about a dozen or so times. I learned a lot about me. I learned a lot about what to pine for and what to not pine for.
  With a few, we got back together, for awhile. Which says a lot right there, doesn't it?
  
  
  
  Eep!
  
  -Doug
  
  
  

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  Dec 02, 2010 5:45 AM GMT

  Hang in there, i have been there and i know how you feel..Stay strong mate!!

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  Dec 02, 2010 5:49 AM GMT

  Nah...once I cry over someone I'm good to go.

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  Dec 02, 2010 6:07 AM GMT

  meninlove said Yep, I sure did. Over 16 years of being single and not, then single, then not, I'd say at about a dozen or so times. I learned a lot about me. I learned a lot about what to pine for and what to not pine for.
  With a few, we got back together, for awhile. Which says a lot right there, doesn't it?
  
  
  
  Eep!
  
  -Doug
  
  
  

  
  
  
  Then, I met Bill.

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  Dec 02, 2010 6:16 AM GMT

  The only ones I still think about are the ones with which it came to an amicable ending. I still wonder how he's doing, if he's happy. If my heart was broken, he's dead to me.

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  Dec 02, 2010 3:06 PM GMT

  Avoid focusing on the heartache, the good times are what you hold dear and what you should keep with you.

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  Dec 03, 2010 3:24 AM GMT

  Haha, well the thing is, I am thinking about the good times, what I miss enjoying. And enjoy missing. Get it?
  I heard it somewhere that you shouldn't dwell in the past. Of course it's good once in a while to revisit good memories. I'm just contemplating.
  Thanks for the concern though. You guys are all right.

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