The feeling of holding someone and of being held by him only magnifies all things powerful and masculine. The strength and power of a man's arms - or all of him, legs, chest, hands enveloped and tangled in each other's embrace - deferring to tenderness and stillness and feeling the subtle shift of temperature, the breath, the pulse...THAT is so extraordinarily hot and sexy that to not have it seems like thievery. Anybody who thinks it's "on the pansy side" is a damn, lonely, empty fool and anything but a man, let alone a Real Jock.
Kissing and Cuddling. THE very definition of masculine intimacy.