Cuddling - love or hate?

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    Dec 23, 2010 2:23 PM GMT
    Love it... big or small spoon... and how is cuddling not masculine? I've never thought of a guy who likes to cuddle as not masculine. I think the two are not related. It's human to want to be physically close to someone like that... just look at the apes. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Dec 23, 2010 2:33 PM GMT
    Cuddling for me... well... it's mandatory. lol

    There's nothing better than cuddling, snuggling, spooning...... anytime. ....on the sofa, before sex, after sex, while sleeping...

    It's a little difficult in a rural area to find a cuddler.
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    Dec 23, 2010 2:35 PM GMT
    LOVE, times a gazillion!!! icon_razz.gif
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    Dec 23, 2010 2:39 PM GMT
    Love to cuddle!
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    Dec 23, 2010 2:45 PM GMT
    Cuddling is awesome esp in winters.
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    Dec 23, 2010 2:48 PM GMT
    are there people that actually "hate" cuddleing?
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    Dec 23, 2010 2:49 PM GMT
    The feeling of holding someone and of being held by him only magnifies all things powerful and masculine. The strength and power of a man's arms - or all of him, legs, chest, hands enveloped and tangled in each other's embrace - deferring to tenderness and stillness and feeling the subtle shift of temperature, the breath, the pulse...THAT is so extraordinarily hot and sexy that to not have it seems like thievery. Anybody who thinks it's "on the pansy side" is a damn, lonely, empty fool and anything but a man, let alone a Real Jock.

    Kissing and Cuddling. THE very definition of masculine intimacy.
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    Dec 23, 2010 2:50 PM GMT
    it is probably the best thing on the planet!
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    Dec 23, 2010 2:58 PM GMT
    Love it, and do it every morning and every chance I get, although it gives me a boner so I start rubbing like a little dog on a leg icon_biggrin.gif
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    Dec 23, 2010 3:04 PM GMT
    Bunjamon saidHow could anyone hate cuddling? icon_confused.gif


    how indeed? icon_cool.gif
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    Dec 23, 2010 3:14 PM GMT
    I absolutely love cuddling! I love cuddling in any direction, even face to face, but there is something special to me about being the little spoon haha

    Something just heavenly about this...

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    Dec 23, 2010 3:20 PM GMT
    Wait...
    does anyone know anyone that doesn't like cuddling?
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    Dec 23, 2010 3:24 PM GMT
    I prefer to call it spooning! I have narrow shoulders, so I prefer to be spooned than be the spooner!
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    Dec 23, 2010 3:25 PM GMT
    Love cuddling. Can't do for long, though. Unless it's 'after'cuddling icon_cool.gif
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    Dec 23, 2010 3:26 PM GMT
    Love to cuddle here too and even though I'm much taller than my bf, I like being the little spoon. I love his arms around me and pressing up against my ass. I miss when I"m in bed alone and he's not there to wrap or be wrapped by. The pillow just isn't quite the same!
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    Dec 23, 2010 3:27 PM GMT
    i guess ill be the first one to say i dont really like cuddling that much when im sleeping. i'm pretty much a human furnace and get hot so easily and it's nearly impossible to fall asleep like that. but otherwise bring it on.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j0eStJlnNKo

    embedding was disabled but my point
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    Dec 23, 2010 3:33 PM GMT
    God, I LOVE IT! And if the truth is to be known, I prefer it to sex nine times out of ten.

    And to the OP: There's nothing pansy about it at all! Part of wooing another guy is knowing how to make him feel comfortable, and being able to cuddle and be cuddled is one of the best ways that I know of to do this.
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    Dec 23, 2010 3:38 PM GMT
    LOVE cuddling...whether i am the cuddler or the cuddlee, i love it
    one of my all time favorite things to do icon_smile.gif
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    Dec 23, 2010 3:41 PM GMT
    I'm not really a big fan. I'm like a furnace and I accumulate a lot of heat. I've just never really cared for the 'intimacy' thing either.
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    Dec 23, 2010 4:04 PM GMT
    singinnc said
    Samm77 said5'5 and love to cuddle.. either being the cuddler or the cuddlee.. Just love to spend that kind of quality time with someone.


    And who wouldn't want to cuddle with you, buddy. Alas, so far away...
    All the best.


    Hehe thanks buddy icon_smile.gif). There are many that wouldn't ;)

    But cuddling is more than just spooning. You can have someone lean up against you while you're sitting up right.. Etc icon_smile.gif. Love cuddling icon_smile.gif

    Spooningus hot especially if the one I'm with is a furnace ;). I am too and generating sweat can be a sexy thing that leads to other things hehe ;)

    There's nothing at all compared to true and real intimacy.. Nothing at all
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    Dec 23, 2010 4:12 PM GMT
    I am a total cuddler -- love it -- and I would not be able to date anyone who wasn't a cuddler. Take away my sex if you must, but not my cuddles
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    Dec 23, 2010 4:19 PM GMT
    Cuddling is like sex, just without the end. Im the cuddle champ, I can cuddle all day and night. As curiousjock said, take away my sex if you must but do not mess with my cuddles!
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    Dec 23, 2010 4:25 PM GMT
    I love this thread, all these big kick ass men who love to cuddle....oh,,,,i love it toooooo..............................................icon_wink.gif.............Keithicon_cool.gif
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    Dec 23, 2010 4:29 PM GMT
    Samm77 said
    singinnc said
    Samm77 said5'5 and love to cuddle.. either being the cuddler or the cuddlee.. Just love to spend that kind of quality time with someone.


    But cuddling is more than just spooning. You can have someone lean up against you while you're sitting up right.. Etc icon_smile.gif. Love cuddling icon_smile.gif



    Maybe I have just only had spooning. Since I have had no one else "really cuddle" with me then... I might have to give this a try.
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    Dec 23, 2010 4:37 PM GMT
    I Love to cuddle and spoon