PhnxKng saidsorry man...i hate to be the bummer in this one but I was just dumped after 1 year and 4 months because I only weigh 170lbs with an athletic build and im not ripped out around 200lbs plus. My boyfriend was around 200lbs and ripped. I find big muscular guys only want big muscular guys when it comes down to it Wow that sucks. I wish I could get down to 220. I haven't been there in prob 10 years... I'm def not ripped but I consider myself to be a big muscular guy. I can bench 315+ and deadlift over 455. I have some knee problems so my squat is pretty assed out at the moment.
Anyway, I am def more attracted to bigger guys. Cross country runners do nothing for me. However, physical attraction only gets your foot in the door. If you wanna get all the way into the most exclusive club in town You gotta have confidence.
We big dudes strut around the gym like our taint don't stink because we can lift heavy weights. When I deadlift 405... As soon as the bar comes back down it makes a sound that can be heard throughout the gym. That's the sound of, "I'm f#cking you tonight." Gay, straight, old, young... Everybody responds to the sound. It's the meathead mating call. Skinny guys don't really have a mating call... Unless you count the beeping of your stop watch when you run your 10k. That beeping though... Not very sexy.
Haha, yeah, these types of threads keep asking about different types of people. Not everyone can go and dead lift 405 pounds. These people obviously have different goals and wants.. But for us runners, we achieve for something else entirely. Not the lift, but the duration and its burn. There's something awesome about the oxygen, endorphins, sprints and long runs. Its sexiness can come in being a sort of chase between two people and the soft sound of breathing, its a game of sorts.
(I lift, but I prefer running and ULTIMATE FRISBEE)
Everyone is different , that bla phrase, and different people want different things in themselves and other people. So relax. I think its appropriate that in dating at least, if you can't get what-you-want, you may want to work to be like what-you-want gets. You could see yourself as being disappointed in them not liking you. You could make a goal of improving yourself. Personally, I just say fuck it and do what-you-want. I certainly don't run because it makes me feel sexy (if that was my goal, I'd just lift). I do it because it makes me happy, its an accomplishment I prefer. That makes me confident.
Confidence is sexy. Thats the strut CarbGoggles is talking about having. Confidence. So do something that makes you confident. Whether that means you run, lift, read, design, or whatever does not matter. That you have the sexy strut of confidence does matter to the guy you think is sexy.