skinny vs muscular

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    Jul 21, 2011 8:59 PM GMT
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    Spiritreaver saidSome day I'll do what it's like to be with a bigger guy, some day..


    Some day you will know what its like?

    Sorry to say this spirit, but you have to be cute/attractive to get with a bigger guy!

    (Dont hurt me, I love you!)
    Yeah this thread has taught me a lot. icon_sad.gif Time to get into bestiality.
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    Jul 21, 2011 9:00 PM GMT
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    Chainers said
    Spiritreaver saidSome day I'll do what it's like to be with a bigger guy, some day..


    Some day you will know what its like?

    Sorry to say this spirit, but you have to be cute/attractive to get with a bigger guy!

    (Dont hurt me, I love you!)
    Yeah this thread has taught me a lot. icon_sad.gif Time to get into bestiality.



    Only if you consider me a beast :-)
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    Jul 21, 2011 9:07 PM GMT
    Some really muscular guys like them really lean/thin. You never know.
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    Jul 21, 2011 9:26 PM GMT
    Since I first started liking guys, I was skinny (and short then), and liked bigger guys, a little older too. It's been the biggest constant in my turnons over the years. I always wanted to be the "Little Buddy" of a "Big Buddy".
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    Jul 21, 2011 9:28 PM GMT
    SkinnyBitch saidSince I first started liking guys, I was skinny (and short then), and liked bigger guys, a little older too. It's been the biggest constant in my turnons over the years. I always wanted to be the "Little Buddy" of a "Big Buddy".


    Me too, I find there to be many a big buddies out there who want a little guy to toss around.

    I dont understand why skinny people bitch...
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    Jul 21, 2011 9:32 PM GMT
    One of my ex's was (is) really really jacked. He's very attracted to thin guys who are on the feminine side. He told me that to him it didn't make sense to be attracted to the "same thing" as he is. He had an aversion to looking or acting like what he was attracted to. It didn't work out in the end because he was really into dominating and being in control (and that doesn't fly with me, I like it mutual). I was also not feminine looking and acting enough he realised. Which was actually a small ego boost for me.

    I have noticed though that a lot of bigger guys who are attracted to smaller guys are more often then not into dominating the smaller guy and always being the top.
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    Jul 21, 2011 9:33 PM GMT
    tautomer4314 saidOne of my ex's was (is) really really jacked. He's very attracted to thin guys who are on the feminine side. He told me that to him it didn't make sense to be attracted to the "same thing" as he is. He had an aversion to looking or acting like what he was attracted to. It didn't work out in the end because he was really into dominating and being in control (and that doesn't fly with me, I like it mutual). I was also not feminine looking and acting enough he realised. Which was actually a small ego boost for me.

    I have noticed though that a lot of bigger guys who are attracted to smaller guys are more often then not into dominating the smaller guy and always being the top.


    Hence why I am a smaller guy attracted to bigger, I like being dominated, controlled, and bottomed :-)
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    Jul 21, 2011 9:44 PM GMT

    Actually, I remember a looong time ago, seeing this Jerry Springer episode about 2 gay guys who dressed as women, and the makeup, hair, fake eyebrows were done so they looked like clones of each other.

    I thought it was so strange that they liked each other looking the same as themselves. Maybe Jerry Springer made me like what I like.
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    Jul 21, 2011 10:00 PM GMT
    Amusing, in one thread everyone basically wholeheartedly agreed that looks play a big role in the gay community.

    Now in this thread bettering your physical appearance is a sign that you have issues.

    Something's wrong here.
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    Jul 21, 2011 10:05 PM GMT
    I have always attracted bigger guys. I don't know why and I tend to be the more aggressive of the two of us!!!!! I've never been with anyone shorter or smaller then myself. Not that it is a turn off or anything, but the "big boys" are drawn to me and I love it!
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    Jul 21, 2011 10:05 PM GMT
    Spiritreaver saidAmusing, in one thread everyone basically wholeheartedly agreed that looks play a big role in the gay community.

    Now in this thread bettering your physical appearance is a sign that you have issues.

    Something's wrong here.


    Congrats, you've figure it out lol.

    Its important to a certain extent. Im dating this guy who is a big ass body builder, but if he didnt bring anything else to the table I would date him. Just like ive dated guys who had athletic bodies because I found their personality to be hot.

    Attraction is important, but if its your only world you have big problems.
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    Jul 21, 2011 10:39 PM GMT
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    Spiritreaver saidAmusing, in one thread everyone basically wholeheartedly agreed that looks play a big role in the gay community.

    Now in this thread bettering your physical appearance is a sign that you have issues.

    Something's wrong here.


    Congrats, you've figure it out lol.

    Its important to a certain extent. Im dating this guy who is a big ass body builder, but if he didnt bring anything else to the table I would date him. Just like ive dated guys who had athletic bodies because I found their personality to be hot.

    Attraction is important, but if its your only world you have big problems.
    Exactly, I tell people this all the time. Looks get my attention, personality keeps me there.

    But at the same time, there is nothing wrong with trying to better your physical image, as long as that is not your sole focus and you have other reasons to do it other than to impress people. I'd be lying if I didn't say hit the gym to look better, but I also want to be healthy, stronger, and have something to do every day.

    It's the same reason I go to school. I don't just want to get a nice job and make a decent paycheck, that's one thing sure, but I also like learning and broadening my knowledge/interests. You gotta learn to be a well rounded individual rather than get caught up on one or two attributes.
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    Jul 21, 2011 10:42 PM GMT
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    Spiritreaver saidAmusing, in one thread everyone basically wholeheartedly agreed that looks play a big role in the gay community.

    Now in this thread bettering your physical appearance is a sign that you have issues.

    Something's wrong here.


    Congrats, you've figure it out lol.

    Its important to a certain extent. Im dating this guy who is a big ass body builder, but if he didnt bring anything else to the table I would date him. Just like ive dated guys who had athletic bodies because I found their personality to be hot.

    Attraction is important, but if its your only world you have big problems.
    Exactly, I tell people this all the time. Looks get my attention, personality keeps me there.

    But at the same time, there is nothing wrong with trying to better your physical image, as long as that is not your sole focus and you have other reasons to do it other than to impress people. I'd be lying if I didn't say hit the gym to look better, but I also want to be healthy, stronger, and have something to do every day.

    It's the same reason I go to school. I don't just want to get a nice job and make a decent paycheck, that's one thing sure, but I also like learning and broadening my knowledge/interests. You gotta learn to be a well rounded individual rather than get caught up on one or two attributes.


    I go to the gym to check out all the hotties :-)
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    Jul 21, 2011 10:44 PM GMT
    rosco87 saidwell, i wouldn't change myself for a specific person to like me, but for physical attraction, i'd like to be in the right spectrum.


    I totally agree with you. Sure, it's great to be fit, but it isn't the main thing that I look at when dating a guy.
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    Jul 21, 2011 11:44 PM GMT
    So true, the physical can draw anyone to you because that is the first thing people are subject to but what do you have beyond that to make a person stay? That's where relationships go wrong...jackasses come in some of the prettiest packages! lol
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    Jul 21, 2011 11:46 PM GMT
    Beefy please ;)
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    Jul 22, 2011 12:03 AM GMT
    wtf this thread is still going ??

    i've since discovered a muscle bear that wants to make me his bitch. pretty content. figure i'll just eat healthy and exercise and w/e i come out as people can accept. not too sure i want to ride bitch on his motorcycle though lol.... social stigma...

    now i need to find more of them icon_twisted.gif


    my thoughts on this thread now, it was dumb to assume certain builds go for certain builds, everyone is an individual and you won't know what someone likes till they tell you.

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    Then why did you give him that list of old threads? icon_lol.gif