i don't know if i should be inspired or just give up...

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    Apr 08, 2008 4:23 AM GMT
    i feel i should respond here:

    i thank you all very much for the compliments... this wasn't a fishing thread, but i do appreciate it very much.

    i suppose the tone i took earlier didn't convey properly how much i admire this man's commitment to fitness. i think he's stunning, and i didn't mean to have anyone try to build me up in comparison (which, although very sweet, is unrealistic).

    i know i have my own process, and i have moments where my air gets knocked out of me: he really is spectacular (no, not going to the breeder side of the force just yet). but in a way i'm glad i started this convo, because of the nice image about the ladder - checking on how far you've come vs. how far there is still to go...

    thanks again for the encouragement - i think i'd better be inspired, since giving up won't accomplish much of anything at all.
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    Apr 08, 2008 4:31 AM GMT
    I think most people would look pretty good if a pro photographer snapped some photos of them. He doesn't look that way first thing in the morning. I do, but it all goes downhill from there...
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    Apr 08, 2008 7:15 AM GMT
    Looks are half the battle, personality trumps all.

    The hottest guy can become the ugliest man after he opens his mouth to reveal his ugly side and I think a guy with a great witty, funny personality can be so much hotter then a guy that lives to work out.
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    Apr 08, 2008 7:15 AM GMT
    obscenewish said[quote][cite]Moudi[/cite]i think his is body ugly...its very superficial.....i like people to be natural, not filled up with plastic and shots....give up? psssh....someone who looks like him is disgusting...i would say that most men would not date someone that looks that fake...

    You're so right. Who could bear to fuck, I mean look at this:

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    Mr. Alencar's website is here:

    http://www.rafael-alencar.com/home.htm

    Warning: The ugliness is rampant.[/quote]

    he honestly doesnt do anything to me..the whole idea that he is fake is just a major turnoff..why would i want to date or fuck someone not real..i look at the picture and i dont even get a bit excited
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    Apr 08, 2008 7:35 AM GMT
    Erm, you know that he could have a look at this thread at any moment? Man, he'll get pissed! icon_biggrin.gificon_lol.gificon_razz.gificon_wink.gif
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    Apr 08, 2008 7:37 AM GMT
    muttskins saidErm, you know that he could have a look at this thread at any moment? Man, he'll get pissed! icon_biggrin.gificon_lol.gificon_razz.gificon_wink.gif


    and then what?
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    Apr 08, 2008 7:41 AM GMT
    Dunno, just saying, how'd you like it if someone started an anti-Moudi thread? icon_biggrin.gificon_lol.gificon_razz.gificon_wink.gif
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    Apr 08, 2008 7:43 AM GMT
    muttskins saidDunno, just saying, how'd you like it if someone started an anti-Moudi thread? icon_biggrin.gificon_lol.gificon_razz.gificon_wink.gif


    hehe, well, not everyone is everyone's type icon_smile.gif
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    Apr 08, 2008 7:48 AM GMT
    While the constructive support for Dancerjack is good and to the credit of the RJ community, what the hell are people doing badgering RafaelAlencar?

    What has he done to warrant this kind of bile?
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    Apr 08, 2008 7:50 AM GMT
    NickoftheNorth saidWhile the constructive support for Dancerjack is good and to the credit of the RJ community, what the hell are people doing badgering RafaelAlencar?

    What has he done to warrant this kind of bile?


    im not really badgering him, im just saying that e doesnt turn me on and that i dont think dancerjack should want to look like that, personal preference icon_smile.gif

    he might be a really good guy, i cant say, but the entire thread was about the physical appearance
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    Apr 08, 2008 8:37 AM GMT
    dancerjack, what you describe is universal. Every day, I vacillate from "I look smokin' hot!" to feeling like an ugly, skinny sack of bones probably a hundred different times. All you can do is try to maintain a certain awareness during the demoralized times that it's just your mind bugging out and not an actual truth about your appearance. Our minds love to play horrible tricks on us.
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    Apr 08, 2008 12:28 PM GMT
    jprichva

    "Yeah, and so does my Uzi, pal. BLAM!"



    they had uzis in the spanish inquisition?icon_eek.gif
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    Apr 08, 2008 12:45 PM GMT
    HAHAHA....oy vay! Yall are all gorgeous! Please, step inside a Walmart and look around. That is what most people in this country look like.

    Remember, the body should be a reflection of your lifestyle. If you live a healthy life and are active it will show, and no matter how sculpted or worked out it may be, the pure fact that you look healthy and fit is enough. Looking like Rafael Alencar is attainable to some degree but you'd have to adopt that kinda lifestlye. Some guys live in the gym, it works for them. But allot of us don't, we enjoy other things in life. For me, sitting in my studio making music is one of the most rewarding aspects of my life. If I had to choose, I'd choose my music over looks or fitness.

    So none of yall should fret over minor details. If you're healthy, you'll look healthy and healthy always looks good.
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    Apr 08, 2008 12:45 PM GMT
    Well, Rafael is quite attractive and hung nicely. I had a boyfriend who was hung better though, I think he bruised my pancreas a couple of times. The trouble with that old boyfriend was, he had a body like Fred Flintstone.

    Well, I'm happy for Rafael, I hope he has a very successful modeling career. In the "Bottom" photo, his face sort of resembles a young Jon Stewart.

    dancerjack, you have your own talents, you don't need to compare yourself to anyone. Enjoy life while you can.




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    Apr 08, 2008 12:52 PM GMT
    Devildog78 saidHAHAHA....oy vay! Yall are all gorgeous! Please, step inside a Walmart and look around. That is what most people in this country look like.



    This is almost exactly what I was about to type.

    Furthermore, I find it fruitless to compare/contrast. We have to find comfort in our own skin if we're ever going to have peace/comfort in our lives.

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    Apr 08, 2008 1:03 PM GMT
    RunintheCity,

    Great minds think alike icon_wink.gif You're one hot fucker! I'd take you over that porn god any day!!
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    Apr 08, 2008 1:06 PM GMT
    Comparing yourself to someone else is a recipe for unhappiness. We all are blessed with something about us that is unique and makes us individually hot.

    Really DJ you got nothing to be worried about, man. But, I don't understand the need to tear down one guy to build up another. It's one thing to say, "not my type" and another to say the things that up towards the top of this thread.

    Rafael may not be your type, but he's still another human being with feelings. There's always the possibility that he trains naturally...
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    Apr 08, 2008 1:06 PM GMT
    Hey RITC & DD78, care for a sandwichicon_question.gif
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    Apr 08, 2008 1:42 PM GMT
    I want to echo Mickeytopogigio and NickoftheNorth---let's not tear down one RJ member to build up another in the forums.
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    Apr 08, 2008 4:19 PM GMT
    okay, let's take a step back please:

    this is one of the most botched attempts at a compliment i've ever devised... i don't know what i was thinking when i worded the original post the way i did...

    let me clarify one more time that this man, natural or not, is beautiful. although he may not be everyone's type, he is still a great example of male beauty. i will definitely try to make sure i use more care in the future about these "compliments."

    i echo the sentiment that tearing one rj member down to build up another wasn't the original aim of my post. i thank you for your compliments, but please don't feel that i am empowered in any way by someone else's feelings being hurt.

    thanks friends - let's play nice, m'kay? icon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 08, 2008 4:31 PM GMT
    Devildog78 saidRunintheCity,

    Great minds think alike icon_wink.gif
    They tend too! icon_smile.gif

    Devildog78 saidYou're one hot fucker! I'd take you over that porn god any day!!
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    Apr 08, 2008 4:32 PM GMT
    dancerjack said

    thanks friends - let's play nice, m'kay? icon_biggrin.gif


    :kiss:
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    Apr 08, 2008 4:51 PM GMT

    This was a shrine thread; I coined the term shrine thread for post like this that publically attempt to flatter or compliment a single member. SHRINE THREADS ARE LAME BECAUSE...preferences and taste vary too much for one member to try and force his taste off on too many people at a time, while making a big deal about it like it constitutes a "topic" like other issues posted here. Your taste are personal , which is why you ought to send a personal message or just hotlist a guy you fancy, not try and create a whole thread about him.
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    Apr 08, 2008 5:04 PM GMT
    Moudi saidi think his is body ugly...its very superficial.....i like people to be natural, not filled up with plastic and shots....

    give up? psssh....someone who looks like him is disgusting...i would say that most men would not date someone that looks that fake...


    Gosh. Issues much?icon_lol.gif
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    Apr 08, 2008 5:14 PM GMT

    Moudi, I bet Rafeal just goes to the club to dance as well. icon_smile.gif