HndsmKansan saidThe word "hate" is overused. It should rarely be exercised.
The reality here is you want to see this guy with some negative light so you won't be encouraged to ask him out... isn't that about it?
I agree with Sedative and GQ. Maybe he will be fun and a good date, someone you might want to fall for. If he treats you unfairly, then you have a good reason to look at him with some negativism.
as i fell so deeply in love, it seems like i wanna destroy the best thing that ever has happened to me!
I look back and the best/only reason i can cum up with is very simple, pure and easy:
"I am so scared, yes, of being truly hurt, that i look for a reason, [not to say there are sum]." But when he always says in the middle of the worst fight 'I Love You, always will, and nothing will ever change that NO MATTER WHAT!'
Which of course makes me more insecure.... i swear that if i shot him he'd apologize for 'getting in the way of the bullet' LOL!!! So I luv him unconditionally forever despite that lingering fear.
A WISE PERSON ONCE SAID THAT IN ORDER TO HATE ONE MUST LOVE.