buh bye

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    May 13, 2008 11:14 PM GMT
    You've got to be kidding....this seems like needless drama to create a post about quitting posting. Is there a message to send out to all those who make funny comments or take the thread down a different path?

    You have been involved in many good posts and have written some great things.

    Many of the more serious threads are splattered with lesser remarks, and I have to say many of them are in fact quiet humorus and at worst..harmless and easily ignored.

    This, and all such sites should be seen as a socializing, entertaining venue (for fun!) and for anyone to take it (them) so seriously is in for a big letdown. There are thousands of people on here, each with distinct view points and something to say. Its no different in real life, like at a dinner party where 12 people are all trying to get their opinion out, or try to be funny or act "cute".

    Forget you said that and since its such a touchy issue with you, just be selective in your posting and dont worry if there are silly people on here...because I have enjoyed many of the things you have written and I hope to see you in some of the frays again.

    Its much easier to ignore a bitchy or silly post or response than to get upset over it.

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    May 13, 2008 11:15 PM GMT
    ShawnTO saidHe went away, thought it was a mistake to leave, came back and realized it wasn't, now he's off again.

    Everyone makes a big deal when some one leaves without announcing it, now it's a big deal when they do?



    Hey, I'm not making a big deal out of it. I like it when guys let us know that they are going to leave, but Jack did not say he was leaving. Just not posting. I really do think this is just for attention. Not saying that is bad or anything.


    Mike
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    May 14, 2008 3:10 AM GMT
    ShawnTO said[quote][cite]Pattison said[/cite]
    But One sees you are still here. So it cements Ones thought it was nothing more than an attension seeking adventure, by a drama queen. A petulant child.


    dancerjack saidif you want to stay in touch with me, email me and i'll send you my private email address.


    Kind of hard to email him for his private email if he cancelled his account right way. Doesn't take a genius to figure that one out, but apparently it takes more than half a brain.
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    Strange this was written yesterday. Yet he was still on line today.... So he did not cancel his account str8 away.
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    May 14, 2008 3:16 AM GMT
    Ummm, no he didn't cancel his account straight-away, as you can see by his profile pic. Good for you for stating the obvious though. Well done.
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    May 14, 2008 3:36 AM GMT
    Girl... you so crazy!
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    May 14, 2008 6:19 AM GMT
    Oh I was just waiting for dancerjack to cancel his account so I can post this appropriately!
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    I don't have his e-mail ID either. Just faith.
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    May 15, 2008 8:35 AM GMT
    huh
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    May 15, 2008 9:32 AM GMT
    I know your mind is set already, but.. yeah the others got it right. If you don't like the thread or the poster then ignore it/them. There are hijackings going on (and I'm guilty for some of that), but they usually revert to the topic after a few more posts.

    I know I'm only a genius and all that ;) , but hey, this isn't GLBT central or something. Of course the conversations will not always be intelligent, and the way threads get derailed is only a measure of how most of us already know how the others think.

    But why are you taking it all so seriously? icon_sad.gif The way I see it, it's often the only way to defuse potential flame wars. A little bit of the silly don't hurt nobody.

    Without the lolcats, it'll be flame war after flame war here. And dammit, RJ would be boring as hell if we were all PC and only posted rationally, wouldn't it?

    And inside jokes aren't exclusionary. Anyone can jump in. Blah. It's not like the regulars are aristocrats or something. It's just that we've been here long enough to know each other well enough already.

    Why do I feel guilty and like I have to apologize for being a tad bit insane like a lot of people here?

    I don't like that feeling at all.