TURNING STRAIGHT GUYS GAY

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    May 15, 2008 3:39 PM GMT
    I guess I never understood this whole turn on about "allegedly" turning a straight guy gay. It's a useless fantasy. Never gonna happen if he's straight. He may let you suck him off but fuck that. Use a vacuum hose straight boy or get your woman a "how to video" otherwise known as hot gay porn, to satisfy your needs. Waaaaay too many hot gay or bisexual men out there to fill the need.

    That example about the movie Shelter may be where some guys misunderstand things. The one guy was already out and proud. The other was a closet case not even interested in his current girlfriend sexually. He wasn't a straight guy. Just a gay dude living in the closet.
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    May 15, 2008 3:41 PM GMT
    No.

    Gay is either about biological attraction or self identification depending on if you want to use the social definition or the scientific one.

    Either way, you can't change it. THEY may be able to if you're using the social definition, but you can't.
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    May 15, 2008 4:05 PM GMT
    didn't we just have this same forum topic last week? no, its not possible. all that can be done is to bring to the surface something a guy may have buried out of self-hate.
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    May 15, 2008 4:06 PM GMT
    rawOOL saidNO
    you can make a CLOSETED guy come OUT
    but not turn STRAIGHT into GAY


    I agree 100%... it happened to me (though I had no idea I was even IN the closet).
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    May 15, 2008 4:10 PM GMT
    jarhead5536 saidNo, you're not. Same here. I think it's probably an unconscious self-preservation mechanism resulting from our first loves having been unrequited because they were straight guys.

    Or a 'straight' guy who couldn't deal, as in my case icon_lol.gif
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    May 16, 2008 10:23 AM GMT
    Famous myth in the gay lexicon
    No you can't turn a TRULY str8 man gay

    Now...what you can do is open the door to a man who's teetering on the fence a bit

    that you CAN do
    Kinda like flyfishing
    but it's a helluva lot more fun icon_wink.gif
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    May 16, 2008 2:56 PM GMT
    genqb saidwake up boys. he might let you suck him off when he's drunk, but that's all you'll ever get from a straight man.... complete waste of time!

    hey! icon_evil.gif
    I think the muttskins will disagree.
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    May 16, 2008 3:00 PM GMT
    NO!

    You have as much chance as turning a pure homosexual str8!
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    May 16, 2008 3:01 PM GMT
    czarodziej saiddidn't we just have this same forum topic last week? no, its not possible. all that can be done is to bring to the surface something a guy may have buried out of self-hate.


    Seems like we have this discussion regularly. Its ever so boring. Not sure why there is this mystique around straight guys and this loathing of the gay population. Said it a million times, be yourself. Surely there are enough gays out there that you don't have to go out and perpetuate a common stereotype and core root of hatred towards gays which is str8 poaching. Come on guys.
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    May 16, 2008 3:07 PM GMT
    In many cases I think the need to turn a straight guy gay comes from self-loathing and wanting to torture ones self with someone one can't have.
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    May 16, 2008 3:32 PM GMT
    barbie_aint_got_nothin saidDO U THINK ITS POSSIBLE? SUM DO SUM DONT. WAT DO U THINK


    What a stupid question! You can no more turn a straight guy gay than you can turn a gay guy straight.

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    May 16, 2008 4:09 PM GMT
    zimatar saidhey! icon_evil.gif
    I think the muttskins will disagree.

    Zim, please stop including me in these kind of threads, hehe! I CAN speak for myself when I want to! icon_biggrin.gificon_lol.gificon_razz.gificon_wink.gif
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    May 16, 2008 4:22 PM GMT
    No... but it's possible to bring a closeted guy out after he's had a few experiences.
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    May 16, 2008 4:35 PM GMT
    Stigmata saidYou are missing the point of the whole gay or straight way of life.

    We, as gay men, can have sex with a girl all we want and vice verse. That doesn't make us straight or even bi does it? Of course not.

    The act isn't what defines you as gay or straight. It is the desire or attraction that defines you as gay, straight or bi.


    I agree that it is the attraction not the act that makes someone gay, but I have a hard time believing there isnt some form of attraction when people have sex.

    Take your example. I cant have sex with someone, let alone a woman, unless Im attracted to them. It doesnt matter how well they perform I just dont become aroused. Although some reason my attraction for the different sexes is opposite. I prefer older hairy husky men where as for woman I prefer younger petite, but with curves.

    Granted there is a third section of men and I classify them as animals, because they have no need for attraction but rather just a need for release and will screw anything that lets them.
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    May 16, 2008 10:16 PM GMT
    tonyp321 said[quote][cite]Stigmata said[/cite]You are missing the point of the whole gay or straight way of life.

    We, as gay men, can have sex with a girl all we want and vice verse. That doesn't make us straight or even bi does it? Of course not.

    The act isn't what defines you as gay or straight. It is the desire or attraction that defines you as gay, straight or bi.


    Take your example. I cant have sex with someone, let alone a woman, unless Im attracted to them. It doesnt matter how well they perform I just dont become aroused. Although some reason my attraction for the different sexes is opposite. I prefer older hairy husky men where as for woman I prefer younger petite, but with curves.[/quote]



    So then you could be bisexual- My point still stands.

    For example, I'm not particularly attracted to Filipinos (not slighting my Filipino bretheren) but if I were on an island with only Filipino men, would it mean I'm not longer gay? I could still have sex with them because if I wasn't going to take matters into my own hands, it would take another man. I may not particularly enjoy it but on the basic level, I would be acting on my sexual attraction towards men, not a subset of men.

    If you found physically fit persons of both sexes sexually appealing to you, then you are not gay or straight but rather bisexual. Just because I don't find twinks, or physically unfit persons appealing in a sexual way doesn't mean I'm gay only when it's convenient for me.

    Besides, I was purely speaking on the topic of gender not the physical attributes of certain body types within the sexes.

    Stay focused on the issue at hand.
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    May 17, 2008 3:42 AM GMT
    ITJock saidDid you ever ear the old joke...

    What is the difference between a straight guy and a gay guy?

    About a six pack. icon_lol.gif



    I heard a six pack and a dirt road. icon_lol.gif
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    May 17, 2008 4:43 PM GMT
    icon_wink.gif WELL SAID,GENTLEMEN. AT THE END OF THE DAY, FANTASIES ABOUT STR8T MEN ARE FINE,BUT ISNT IT A BETTER TURN ON TO MEET A HOT GUY WHO IS ACTUALLY ATTRACTED TO YOU?
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    May 17, 2008 5:17 PM GMT
    From the mouths of babies!icon_rolleyes.gif
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    May 20, 2008 5:25 AM GMT
    Food for thought if it is 100% a biological issue why are their identical twins where on is gay and the other not. Their DNA is 100% identical. I'm not being an instigator but just sparking debate. Let the lynching begin