May 22, 2008 2:52 PM GMT
Don't like him. I sensed a lot of negative shit in his personality. But I think I will keep my opinion to myself. What would you do?
CuriousJockAZ saidGive the boyfriend a chance. Maybe he was just nervous around his boyfriend's friend's and he will warm up in time and you will form a better opinion of him.
LyteFyre saidI'd let him know how you think, but that either way you'd let him decide what do with him. Ask him what he sees in him and maybe you'll get a better understanding of why he's with him.
HndsmKansan saidI'd want more information before taking any action.
First impressions are very important, it sets the "agenda" so to speak on how you see a person... but they can be wrong in some instances. I'd watch the guy, get more information and make your decision based on additional information.
If you find he is bad news, I'd tell your friend in a helpful way. Certainly dont' alienate him by just bad mouthing his new bf. Ask him some questions and interject your questions. Help him to analyze his new bf based on your concerns... not on negative criticism.
palikari saidIn the same situation. My best friend has been seeing someone for a few months now and I just don't get it. At all. And I don't need to; its about my friend after all... but he doesnt look like he is having fun with this guy, says things are great, but whenever they are together its like they suck the life out of each other. They just sit there like grannies. Haven't said a word about it, but it bothers me.