How long do you last in bed?

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    Nov 19, 2011 6:07 AM GMT
    That usually depends on if it's in a bed, shower, hood of a car, floor, sidewalk or rooftop jacuzzi.
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    Dec 08, 2011 11:06 PM GMT
    30-40 minutes, so somewhere
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    Dec 10, 2011 1:10 AM GMT
    I wonder if gay guys last longer than hetero guys?
    From an evolutionary view point, shooting quickly was most likely to get one a child and keep the blood line active.
    This is not so for a gay guy; it is quite a talent to be able to outlast the bottom and keep them on edge.
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    Jan 13, 2012 10:15 PM GMT
    I think I have the exact opposite problem - it's tough for me to orgasm as a top. It's cool to last really long sometimes, and topping feels great - but the feeling plateaus, and I have count on myself to get off.

    I have a heightened sensitivity threshold, and I attribute that to years of death-grip masturbation, haha. I can find ways to make it work for me during sex, but I'm gradually trying to get myself used to lighter sensations.

    Maybe don't get so worked up during foreplay? Or you can try focusing less during penetration; remember, a good part of our pleasure is visual. Focus on the wall, your plants, whatever. It's worked for me when I did want to last longer. Shallower strokes might also help.
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    Jan 13, 2012 10:31 PM GMT
    RedheadedRy said Don't even get me started on oral: takes me about an hour and a half to cum from getting blown, and some guys don't have the technique or determination to get me there).


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    Jan 13, 2012 10:39 PM GMT
    I last about an hr, but sometimes the bottoms are complaining thats too long haha... I like to work my boys, don't know why hehe....
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    Jan 13, 2012 10:55 PM GMT
    CHIdude said
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    CHIdude saidUm, as long as the other person stays there. Not kidding, if you can be there for hours and hours, so can I.


    That's so hot. I've always admired guys who can do this. I get so sensitive after awhile that I can't hold it back.

    For me, it depends on how much sex or how often I masturbate that week. If I haven't taken care of buisness in a couple of days, then I'll bust a nut in as little as 20 minutes of just pure pumping and grinding. If I had sex or jerked off the day before or on the same day, then I can last for a good while.

    I always try to last longer than my partner because once I cum, then it's all over. I immediately lose interest in sex and just want to cuddle afterwards.


    I can cum, and repeat, and repeat, and repeat, and repeat, and repeat, and repeat... you tired yet? icon_wink.gif


    Is it bad that I want to give CHIdude my info for the next time I'm in Chicago on business? icon_redface.gif
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    Jan 13, 2012 10:58 PM GMT
    uberick saidI know this similar question has been asked in various forms, but usually in the hetero context on medical websites and from untrustworthy yahoo answers, so I am turning to RJers for answers.

    My question is how long do you last (as a top) from penetration to ejaculation? And what do you to last longer?

    When I have sex with my partner, I am so worked up during the foreplay, that by the time we are ready for anal, I usually only last 1 or 2 minutes of pumping before getting to the point of no return. While I can (and I have) try various things such as switching position, stop and go, to make the session last longer, but as soon as I start pumping again, it is matter of 10-20 seconds before I know I am about to cum so I stop and wait again. I think this feels unsatisfactory for my partner and it bothers me. So I am looking for advice to work up the duration for each pumping "set".



    1-2 minutes?? WTF thats not even worth it LOL
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    Jan 13, 2012 11:19 PM GMT
    Depends... If just sex... On average foreplay & all... About 45 mins to an hour. Actual sex hum... Nvr kept track. Longest was 6 hrs though. Lots of sessions... OMG!
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    Jan 13, 2012 11:22 PM GMT
    I try to get 7-8 hours each night
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    Jan 16, 2012 10:13 PM GMT
    rjb2001 saidI last about an hr, but sometimes the bottoms are complaining thats too long haha... I like to work my boys, don't know why hehe....


    Would be interested to hear more details from you.
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    Jan 16, 2012 10:29 PM GMT
    Where It's been a long time since I've last topped, but I think my fastest was 15 min and my longest was an hour before I came. I'm more of a marathon man though. It's not rare for me to cum 3 or 4 times in a session without stopping.
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    Jan 16, 2012 10:41 PM GMT
    Hey I used to have the same problem. I then learned breathing techniques - really empty your lungs, and also think of other things for a bit near climaxing. Also there are condoms that can help maximise performance - Endurance is one by a certain well known brand. Go experiment!!
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    Jan 16, 2012 11:06 PM GMT
    I can go for hours but is it really what its cracked up to be?
    In my experiences, the long drawn out sex sessions can be too exhausting, expecially for the bottom. Plus the quicker the sessions, the more you can have of them. I personally like a lot of foreplay. the licking, kissing, and sucking really puts me on another level so by the time we start intercorse im so revved up that i dont last quite as long.
    My point being, if you give an extra 15 minites of foreplay and really take the time to discover different hotspots, i promis you, he aint gonna care how long you last. Especially if your able to go at it again in a little while. Think about it, which sounds better:
    "we had sex for two hours last night"
    Or
    "we fucked all day and night yesterday"
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    Jan 16, 2012 11:14 PM GMT
    I CAN GO ALL NITE LIKE LUMBERJACK
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    Jan 23, 2012 2:25 PM GMT
    Hi,

    I btm and can offer you some insight into my experiences

    - Try masturbating 1-2 a few hours before sex.
    - How good is your btm? I mean, what techniques does your btm use? I know a guy I've hooked up with a few times can take 40-60 minutes to come, but if I use my master skills in BJ this can be 4-7 minutes instead.
    - What positions are you using? Perhaps you could put your hands behind your head and let your btm ride you at his own pace.

    I hope I could be of assistance icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 23, 2012 4:40 PM GMT
    7Famark saidUntil I lose interest


    same here... though flip flopping, an hour at a time is nice ;)
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    Jan 23, 2012 4:45 PM GMT
    7Famark saidI can last as long as I want to. . .the problem is, once I cum. . .I'm over it, so in my partner's best interest, they better hope they blow first or they probably won't be getting a happy ending.


    That's me too
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    Jan 23, 2012 5:10 PM GMT
    Isn't that what foreplay is for,I mean to have fun explore your bodies. I like to lick and kiss certain areas do a little 69, rub bodies... Etc, etc... Then go in for the pounding which I can take for a good 20 min. It can go longer if I change positions too. I say the let is to slow down and enjoy the moment.
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    Jan 23, 2012 5:15 PM GMT
    runningstud said
    7Famark saidI can last as long as I want to. . .the problem is, once I cum. . .I'm over it, so in my partner's best interest, they better hope they blow first or they probably won't be getting a happy ending.


    That's me too


    Really??? Come on don't be selfish guy's. If I cum first I make sure my man enjoys his moment too!
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    Jan 23, 2012 9:40 PM GMT
    When I top I can last anywhere between 30-40 minutes while switching it up a few times. If I concentrate I could probably hit it in less than 10, but where's the fun in that?
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    Jan 23, 2012 10:02 PM GMT
    Depends on how long I want to last.
    I can knock out a perfunctory ride in 10 mins or less.

    If I'm in it for a longer haul I can last 30-45 mins deliberately, with a 5 min refractory period I can go again for incrementally longer.

    The longest I've ever gone like this is 2.5 hours, (no substances) and can go longer bottoming, but I'm an endurance athlete... if I were to not work out as much I might not be able to, I don't plan on finding out. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jan 24, 2012 4:28 AM GMT
    However long my partner takes. 10 minutes to an hour.
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    Jan 24, 2012 4:44 AM GMT
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    Jan 24, 2012 8:48 AM GMT
    I really can't talk about wearing a condom. Never wear one. Tried but it was like wearing an overcoat and rain slicker. Didnt work. Have never had sexs wth a guy that I didn't know well enough to bareback and I always top so I dont care much.. I must be doing something well cause I am 48 and negative