How long do you last in bed?

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    Feb 23, 2013 12:12 AM GMT
    Aggieboy saidOP are you uncut? This may have a big role in your lack of performance
  • Apparition

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    Mar 16, 2013 6:42 AM GMT
    I fucked a guy (successfully for once) last night for the first time in what 9 months. (I tried one top, and one asian bottom who failed previously- but this is the first guy who could take it). It was a little awkward for me, because it was the first fuck outside of a ltr in 12 years and I hadnt used a condom in so very long.

    He arrived at 630pm We talked til 7pm then moved to the bed. Foreplay and cock sucking til 750, lubing him up til about 810, finding a position i could get it inside another 5 minutes. After it was in and I got over my excitement flush (the first two minutes I gotta just get over or I will cum), we changed to a better position (from cowboy to edge of the bed standing) did that til I couldnt feel it and then missonary position til he came and a few minutes later I came and it was 905. We cuddled and talked 11pm and he had to leave but he stroked my cock and hot me hard again...and him as well. so we jerked off on his chest and got out of bed at 1130. So penetration 55 minutes (which was longer than I like actually but the condom was making so much less sensitive half that would be more than good) and fore and afterplay what 3.5 hours. I was hard about half that time.

    Ideal session for me is 1 hour shirt off, 1 hour pants off, 1 hour cock play.

    If you just want me to cum. just blow me and we can be done in about 15 if i concentrate and you do it right. If I want to torture you, you can blow me forever I will enjoy every greedy second. Best time before giving up was 3 hours. And then i blew in about 3 strokes outside of his mouth.
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    Jun 24, 2013 3:38 AM GMT
    you're lucky, I have never had that problem. I seriously cannot cum for a long time during sex. Trust me too long does exist. I have to work so freaking hard to cum when I'm with someone. When I'm jacking off it is different. I can usually cum in 10 minutes.
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    Jun 24, 2013 3:50 AM GMT
    Montague saidUsually like 4 or 5 to 6 min.




    Poor you
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    Jun 24, 2013 3:51 AM GMT
    1hr non negotiable icon_lol.gif
    And i cuddle naked all night, recipe for multiple rounds during the course of the nighticon_wink.gif

    OP are you uncut? This might be responsible.
  • Wowyes69

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    Oct 07, 2019 12:57 AM GMT
    icon_cry.gifim from Winnipeg Canada and forplay is the best and anal is awsome too.im a bi guy not to expérienced and only had 3 expériences with older guys....when i was younger i had my 2 encountrus but i never got fucked by them.my first expérience only sucked me off and eat my ass but we almost got caught by his wife...and my second expérience he did basicaly the same thing and i was so loud when he put a finger in me...then he was about to fuck me but i woke up his gf and almost got caught again...i ended up moving from bc to Manitoba where i met my 3 expériences.wow he was a older guy but he made me feel so good and he was my first time to get fucked.it Realy hurt but i Realy loved it.yes i get so loud when i feel good.its been acouple years since i had another guy friend and im hoping to meet one .and i hope we can have sex long
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    Oct 13, 2019 2:46 AM GMT
    At 8 hours per day, a third of my life, about nineteen years so far.
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    Nov 10, 2019 12:15 AM GMT
    The longest I've lasted was nearly 4 hours before my resistance was finally broken
    with the best olive-oiled handjob a guy could ever have, thanks to the guy who sucked my
    uncut cock for 3 hrs and then finished me off with the handjob. No hurries, no rushing.
    It was the way he did these things that made me last so friggin long.
    Prior to meeting up with him I was in abstinence for a month, no sexual stimulation whatsoever.
    Not even Edging before meeting him. Mind you, I have mild ED.
    My abstinence, plus his techniques, made me last long--- and it also helped me overcome my ED.

    I'm not recommending this to anyone; I'm only sharing this as my experience.
    I've spent so many years researching and trying various methods of Cum Control and Edging
    to sustain my orgasm and maintain my goon state for as long as possible.
    It involved many factors for me such as Breathing, Body Relaxation, PC Muscle Relaxation,
    Poppers**, and a very patient partner who has no clue that I've been holding my load
    for all that time. If he knew, then he would try to make me cum too soon. I don't want that.

    (**poppers... it's my personal option. I'm not recommending poppers-- that is Your choice alone)
    The sensations I get from this can't be explained in mere words.

    It's one thing to have fun by yourself. In my case, I last as long as I can or want when I'm solo.
    But when I'm with a partner, timing is everything. Because, after all, we both have other things to do today.
    Patience is also everything, because you both need to explore what makes your fansies pulse.

    When you wanna last long in bed with a partner, remember that it takes TWO to Tango.
    You and your partner need patience, and you both must be Receptive and Responsive to one another
    during foreplay and stimulation. Rather than last long to please him, you BOTH should last long Together.
    Total Top or Total Bottom doesn't matter... if only one of you is doing all the work while the other guy
    is just laying there enjoying all the fun, you can bet someone's gonna get pissed off and walk out the door.

    When sexual moves become Routine, you'll know what to expect and then the sex becomes Boring.
    Try some Tease-and-Denial methods to keep the foreplay interesting, and switch it up for each session.
    If your buddy has a favorite way of being tickled, tease him there...
    ...how he responds to it will also encourage you to last a bit longer.
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    Nov 18, 2019 6:54 PM GMT
    Ubeaut saidAt 8 hours per day, a third of my life, about nineteen years so far.

    12 hours if I'm really tired.
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    Nov 23, 2019 5:39 AM GMT
    Muskelprotz said
    Ubeaut saidAt 8 hours per day, a third of my life, about nineteen years so far.

    12 nano seconds.
    FIXED
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    Nov 23, 2019 2:59 PM GMT
    In bed? Just a few minutes...

    But we only get in bed after we've been on the sofa, on the loveseat, against the patio door, on the laundry machine, on the kichen counter, on the floor, on a towel by the door, in the tub, in the car, up against the minibar...

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    Dec 15, 2019 5:42 PM GMT
    With condom about 25 mins, around 10-15 bare. Could probably extend to 30 mins with rubber if I cared to.
  • roadbikeRob

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    Dec 26, 2019 1:02 AM GMT
    JonSpringon saidIn bed? Just a few minutes...

    But we only get in bed after we've been on the sofa, on the loveseat, against the patio door, on the laundry machine, on the kichen counter, on the floor, on a towel by the door, in the tub, in the car, up against the minibar...

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    Man you fucking all over the place. Well at least it reduces the wear and tear on the bed springs lol.
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    Jan 14, 2020 6:20 PM GMT
    How Long Do You Last In Bed?

    Can’t manage more than 6 hours anymore. So that when I wake up is determined by when I fell asleep. If it’s 10 PM, I wake up at 4 AM, even if it is still pitch black, automatic & irreversible, little to do but go online. For that reason I try to stay awake until about midnight or 1.

    “PSSST! Hey - YOU, stupid! This is about SEX in bed!”

    “Oh... never mind...”

    Actually, I could go all night into my 50s. Like the first time I bottomed (and did some topping, too, being versatile). Exhausted, not too sore, but very, very happy. icon_biggrin.gif

    As far as longest single orgasm, it seemed like a whole minute, when I was 45, my first gay sex. It helped that the guy was GREAT at BJs. I didn’t know I could keep cumming for that long, squirt after squirt after squirt, a real gasping, moaning, near-screaming moment.

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    Aug 14, 2020 8:38 AM GMT
    30-40 minutes, so somewhere